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I've been seeing more often (and others have posted the same) that some of the elements of "Reddit etiquette" seem to be taking over here. Luckily I can still find discussion comments but it seems the jokes and general "downvote because I disagree" are slowly taking over.

So the question becomes is it the size or the functionality of the site? The people or popularity? What's your thoughts?

edit: should I change it to Lemmy-hivemind? Exhibit A: the amount of downvotes without a single explanation (guessing it's anything to do with Reddit being talked about).

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[–] saddlebag@lemmy.world 14 points 5 months ago (3 children)

Gamifying the voting incentivises people to make low quality posts and comments. That’s why Reddit is now basically just rage bait fake stories with comment chains that all look exactly the same. And now it’s all just ai generated anyway.

I sometimes visit and read the AITAH type stories and I’m dumbfounded that people can believe or enjoy reading them. All the subtleties and nuances of the early days are gone and it’s a race to who can karma farm the hardest.

The other thing that made Reddit great in early days were the small communities being visible on the front page. It made the content varied and there were different types of posting hitting front page. I think Lemmy is struggling with this because politics is just so loud that we don’t have enough volume of other content being made.

[–] Lemmeenym@lemm.ee 5 points 5 months ago

Using scaled sorting really helps with getting smaller communities on the front page. I still see the political and news communities but I also see communities for cities and niche hobbies.

[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 4 points 5 months ago

I remember when Reddit's best "reading" threads just suddenly shifted. AITA, JustNoMIL, TalesFromTechSupport, TalesFromRetail, all of a sudden they went from realistic stories of real people venting to... just obvious rage bait. It was so disappointing. It was one of the best things to read on the bus, here's someone going through something, can offer support, laugh about it, whatever.

It went from stories like "I had someone demand a manager when I wouldn't offer them 40% off" to "someone pulled a gun on me at work, and my manager told me I should have punched them". Just such horrible bullshit. That's when I knew the site was going downhill.

[–] henfredemars@infosec.pub 2 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Indeed. When’s the last time we saw a well-thought-out, controversial opinion on Reddit?The system breeds behaviors that are in conflict with a high-quality, diverse discussion.

It is for the same reason that I’m very particular about my downvotes. They are reserved for low-quality content, not that which I personally disagree with. I’d like if we could all learn to be less judgmental and more constructive so that we may all learn something meaningful. I think this is incompatible with the way that Reddit operates.

[–] mrnarwall@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

As someone who recently switch to Lemmy, I did notice that there is a general difference in the tone of conversation. This is the first time I've seen it put to words

[–] dhhyfddehhfyy4673@fedia.io 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I wonder if separating relevant/irrelevant & like/dislike into two votes would have any success. Quite likely it would not, but might be worth trying.

[–] Ardyssian@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Would probably rename [ like / dislike ] to [ agree / disagree ] to avoid overlapping with [ relevant / irrelevant ]. To make it more robust, make voting for relevancy compulsory if voting for [ agree / disagree ].

But the reported stats is all moot if there's bot manipulation anyway. Also, people would most likely say it's relevant even if it's actually not, just because they agree with it

[–] Sam_Bass@lemmy.ml 11 points 5 months ago

Stop over-policing people. Just because you disagree with something someone says, doesnt mean you have a right or duty to shut them down

[–] orcrist@lemm.ee 11 points 5 months ago (1 children)

We talk about it as a hive mind, but I think it is actually a problem of large numbers of users and an algorithm that needs tweaking, plus some shady mods.

You post but you're too late, or you have a legit opinion that needs a few sub comments, but it's too late.

Or you get trolled, you respond in a similar vein, and the mod bans you but not them, because the mod likes their opinion more. And I don't blame mods for being soft in general, because it is a shit job. But sometimes it's frustrating.

[–] mindbleach@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 months ago

Or you get trolled, you respond in a similar vein, and the mod bans you but not them, because the mod likes their opinion more.

Or you added a G-rated insult after a detailed explanation of how they're objectively wrong. Because god forbid anyone be the tiniest bit uncivil with someone going 'oh, so you think [infuriating horseshit]?'

Remember: trolling is explicitly forbidden, but any hint of suggesting someone might be trolling is worse somehow.

[–] Clbull@lemmy.world 10 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I have a hypothesis that all the good people with a moral compass left Reddit in disgust over the API changes, and effectively being forced into using the official Reddit app. What remains of Reddit are the sociopathic assholes.

[–] texasspacejoey@lemmy.ca 5 points 5 months ago

all the good people with a moral compass left Reddit in disgust over the API changes

All the good posts left thats for sure. Now its just a bunch of kids asking stupid questions like "should i buy a X" or "is X worth it?".... idk maybe make a decision yourself

[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 8 points 5 months ago

It was moderation and up/down votes influencing comment order.

On reddit you are punished very harshly for downvotes. Your comment gets put at the bottom, hidden and you get rate limited so you can only comment once every 10mins. Mods also nuke threads that go against their ideals and perm ban people in those threads.

Reddit culture shifted a lot during 2015 and the site mods felt they needed to control the discourse.

I don't know how we would fix that problem but I feel like instances and a modlog goes a long way

[–] i_stole_ur_taco@lemmy.ca 7 points 5 months ago (8 children)

The universal problem is that there’s no shared definition of what a downvote represents. Is it “this is spam and should be removed”? “I don’t like this”? “This doesn’t belong here”? “I want to see less of this”? “I disagree”?

That’s not even a Reddit problem - it’s innate to any social media voting apparatus. Extend it to Facebook, even. Does the laugh reaction mean I’m laughing with you or at you?

Most comments and posts I’ve downvoted have been because I accidentally swiped too far right and my upvote changed to the downvote action and I didn’t even notice. So those downvotes don’t even mean anything!

I think the right answer is to stop worrying about votes. Even if they all mean the same thing they’re still meaningless. It’s better to change your post and comment sorting setting than to try to social engineer a way out of it.

[–] interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 3 points 5 months ago (8 children)

+1 and -1 is not representative of the full of ways you can feel about a content. This is what happens when convenience for the system outweights human expression.

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[–] Sorse@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 4 months ago

Most comments and posts I’ve downvoted have been because I accidentally swiped too far right and my upvote changed to the downvote action and I didn’t even notice.

I actually changed it so that if I swipe too far it saves the post/comment and to downvote I have to swipe too far the other side to downvote. I think that makes more sense

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[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

Between the Boston bomber and the APIpocalypse it seemed to me like the hive mind got a lot better, even on Reddit. You could find a lot of different perspectives, and it was rare for one that's definitely wrong to stay on the top. Unless you just define "hive mind" as insufficiently conservative or whatever.

[–] Tiltinyall@beehaw.org 3 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I thought they got a LOT worse after APIpocalypse. I couldn't go anywhere on Reddit without seeing people factioned up. It was like the only approved comments were the same circlejerk as before but with the added tendency to make Reddit look good. Kind of like only saying what you heard on Reddit and nothing else. Shit got lonely quick.

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 5 months ago

I'll take your word for it, lol. Lemmy's been so good I haven't really gone back.

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 1 points 5 months ago

Oh well thank god the wrong perspectives don’t stay at the top.

[–] Coco@sh.itjust.works 5 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Users upvoting/downvoting leads to a hivemind, even if the moderation is not complicit (which it often is).

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[–] geneva_convenience@lemmy.ml 4 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

If users were able to migrate their accounts that could help against centralization

[–] gomp@lemmy.ml 4 points 5 months ago (1 children)

What is that you care to preserve? Can't you just register a new account and kill the old one? (genuinely curious)

[–] geneva_convenience@lemmy.ml 6 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

Many users have stated they would like to keep their comment history and subscriptions. Move their account to a different instance. Having to start from scratch is a big hassle.

The fediverse concept is great but users are locked into the instance they create their accounts on. With so many instances it is better to just start somewhere and figure out what's what later.

So far I am happy with my instance. But if I ever change my mind it would help if migration was simple.

[–] Taalnazi@lemmy.world 3 points 5 months ago

Great point, are the lemmy devs (idk if it works that way?) aware of this?

[–] Linkerbaan@lemmy.world 4 points 5 months ago (3 children)

Moderation is a big part. Heavily libbed up mods such as the Lemmy.World ones are only allowing one perspective to be posted. Which is why the place is slowly turning into Reddit

This is done in three ways:

  • Restricting what content is allowed to be posted using made up metrics like MBFC or calling anything they don't like an opinion piece.

  • Allowing users to insult those with differing opinions EG call them Russian bots or Trump supporters and only banning users when they insult those trolls back.

  • .World/WorldNews style just banning anyone who doesn't have a Biden style Zionist worldview.

The centralization around .World is one of the biggest issues facing Lemmy right now.

[–] Taalnazi@lemmy.world 4 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Yeah, good point. I think it's best to have multiple instances with similar subs so you can always move over easily. People should also make their accounts on different instances and be a bit more active there.

[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 2 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

i was wondering if i was the only one that felt this way; since i keep getting banned and named called on lemmy.world and shitjustworks every time i try to let newbie leftists posters know that lemmy.world doesn't not represent the lemmyverse and that they'll get a much better experience if they try almost any other instance.

[–] kplaceholder@lemmy.ml 3 points 5 months ago

You're absolutely not the only one. My first Lemmy instance was .world, but I eventually left when I noticed that they were kinda manipulating their userbase to consent to an eventual defederation from .ml, on the grounds that it's a "tankie" instance. The .world admins are really quick to ban any communist instance or community, and if all of them are banned, they just outright make shit up.

That was the red flag that made me jump ship, but honestly I don't regret it at all. I didn't truly realize the scope of .world manipulation until I started seeing Lemmy from a different instance.

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[–] MagicShel@programming.dev 4 points 5 months ago (7 children)

I think the difference is when you have a small group everyone sort of considers themselves co-custodians of a space—lifting each other up and helping people integrate. But get enough people and it starts getting exhausting constantly trying to enforce norms against an ever growing community of people who don't understand or respect them. It's like social enshittification.

[–] MelonYellow@lemmy.ca 2 points 5 months ago

Too much growth too fast for sure! Much harder for Lemmy to create its own culture and maintain it. Much harder to discourage toxicity. Notice how healthy communities are often smaller.

Sucks for niche communities but they'll get slowly spun up over time, and in the meantime they can be found in other places including Reddit. I don't personally need everything to be a one-stop shop.

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[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 4 points 5 months ago

I have a conspiracy theory take on it; I think Reddit is run by fascist admins trying to push a fascist ideology and that's why it's so toxic. I think techbros that run corporate social media platforms are all fash.

[–] averyminya@beehaw.org 2 points 5 months ago

There's 3 facets.

  1. Being "in" on the joke.

This is the meme comments, whether they are internet lore (a way to signify that you were there) or simply just in on the joke.

  1. Community expectations.

Some communities are made to be in on the joke. Some communities are made to be informational and analytic. Even the latter communities will eventually have some jokes that occur, which over time will create a caste of those who are "in" on the joke.

  1. Ethics and morals.

In smaller, usually hobby communities, this generally isn't problematic. However in the wider internet, it's not uncommon for hate to be the joke, and spreading it being "in" on the joke.

Therefore, the hivemind is not inherently bad, as it is just a nature of community expectations that are connected through shared experiences over time. But just like we've seen through history, this can be pretty easily manipulated and people who don't have humanitarian beliefs in mind perpetuating that rhetoric.

In any case, to combat this, I think the community just needs to set specific expectations. GameFAQs forums would be a great example of having mostly problem-free hivemind, as video games have a specific meta-game that is developed over time and jokes from that shared experience (git gud, don't get hit, etc). The whole point of these forums was to talk about the game, from meme (before memes) to painstaking min-maxing, and the discussions of the community would revolve around this. The rules of the forums made it pretty hard to be overtly mean or engage in discussion that wasn't centered around the goal of the community.

[–] Blaze@sopuli.xyz 2 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Moderation and mods being accountable.

Public modlogs help a lot

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[–] anticurrent@sh.itjust.works 2 points 5 months ago

They hive mind is just as strong on lemmy as it is on Reddit. which has led me to wind-down my engagement on lemmy and will very soon drop it all together. going back to RSS I guess or might try nostr next.

[–] xmunk@sh.itjust.works 2 points 5 months ago (2 children)

We've absolutely got hive minds here - it requires extremely good and dedicated moderators to keep in check but one thing that might help is adopting my favorite hackernews rule... you are prohibited from downvoting any comments that are direct replies to your comment. That single block works pretty effectively to untrain the habit of "downvote what I disagree with".

[–] Lemmeenym@lemm.ee 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

We also have a problem on lemmy that there is a subset of users who think that votes are how you curate your feed. They downvote anything that they don't want to see instead of blocking communities that they aren't interested in.

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[–] ganymede@lemmy.ml 1 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

probably an unpopular view but tbh i think voting has ruined modern forums

firstly its much much easier to game, and for big platforms to fake

but more to the point, voting makes excellent sense when the topic is something with a clearly provable right/wrong answer. eg. technical questions are ideal for voting, where the wrong information does belong at the bottom because its simply wrong and in most cases most people can easily verify if it works or doesn't work.

instead we get voting for everything now, so it merely becomes a poll of opinions not facts, but unfortunately our monkey brains sees the numbers and somewhat equates emotions with facts.

oldschool forums ALREADY HAD a poll feature, so when we wanted a poll we could get one. now everything is a poll, and when everything is a poll nothing is especially meaningful.

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