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Are you still friends with any of your exes? (thelemmy.club)

submitted 6 days ago by may_be@thelemmy.club to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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My ex "K" just broke up with me. She said she would like to still be friends, though, and since the breakup was friendly, I gladly said I was fine with that.

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[–] Admetus@sopuli.xyz 2 points 6 days ago

Depends on who you are as a person. I used to gravitate back to my exes so they broke it off and swore off communication. This is indeed one of my largest vices, and I am glad they nipped it in the bud.

Life is ever changing, they are out there as a person who is not entirely who they were before, so I needn't run into them or be a part of their life again.