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This is really a monumental societal change.

3rd spaces are nearly completely destroyed, and online seems to be the main option for ppl now.

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[–] IphtashuFitz@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Met my wife 15 years ago on eHarmony. It was the only online service I know of that didn’t “just hit you with a wall of sorority girls”…

I have no idea if it’s at all like it was back then, but at the time it asked you a bunch of very detailed questions, and would lead you through an entire process of learning about potential matches before actually letting you communicate freely with them.

[–] mistermodal@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago

I know a few people who married off of that but they're all Gen X and kind of unhappy. It works.