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[–] IcedRaktajino@startrek.website 21 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (28 children)

Constantly. Usually it takes the form of reducing topics to binary choices and/or purity tests.

  • "You're either with me or against me / You're either part of the solution or part of the problem"
    • Where "part of the solution" means doing exactly, and only exactly what they think you should be doing.
  • "If you don't satisfy all of my impossible requirements, you're ~~as bad as~~ a nazi"
  • "We only agree on 99 out of 100 things, so clearly you're not to be trusted"
  • etc
[–] themeatbridge@lemmy.world 5 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (6 children)

There are thick, uncrossable lines, and there are a lot of people who don't mind crossing them. You cannot compromise with a bigot. You cannot find common ground with a person who would subjugate you, or someone who sees you as less than human.

We can have disagreements about many political issues, but when you are standing next to pedophiles, rapists, fascists, and bigots, you shouldn't be surprised to be called a Nazi.

So the question becomes, what is the test of "purity"?

[–] powerstruggle@sh.itjust.works 7 points 16 hours ago (5 children)

You cannot compromise with a bigot

To reiterate the comment you're responding to, you're reducing a complex world to a binary choice. Everyone that has ever existed is bigoted to some degree, therefore no compromise is possible ever?

[–] themeatbridge@lemmy.world 1 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (1 children)

Bull, and I cannot emphasize this enough, shit. Everyone is not a little bit bigoted. That's something bigots tell themselves when rationalizing their own prejudices. You should probably take a hard look in the mirror and ask yourself if you're the problem.

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