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my only motivation to be there is to earn money and my 401k. So many of my coworkers and management feel offended by this statement.

I'm union. Union lawyer thinks this is a management strategy to try to manipulate me.

Cue BS answer for any c-suite that tries making me feel insecure over this:

well, I'm a terrible liar, that's why I'm asking you :D

the unfriendly party might be easy: I'm always friendly and direct because I want to work. maybe that?

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[–] Ryanmiller70@lemmy.zip 6 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I just don't think everyone is capable of being passionate about any job, or at least ones that are realistically achievable. Personally speaking every single thing I'm passionate about and brings me happiness are things hundreds of thousands of people do for free, so who would pay someone a living wage to do it? At my current job I'm paid incredibly well for someone that never got anything above a high school diploma (currently make around $22k-31k post taxes and deductions for insurance depending on the amount of hours I work and will get a raise soon once I finish my initial 90 days), but I just show up and do the work then go home. I don't talk to anyone (it's also not an environment for casual conversation considering you have to basically scream in somebody's face for them to hear you) and spend my breaks and lunch alone reading a book.

[–] sem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

It's fine to be an introvert, but it is also good to cultivate an interest in what you're doing and a care to do it right.

  • Can I do this more easily?
  • Does this or that affect my work? How much?
  • Am I satisfied with the quality of my work?
  • Are others satisfied with my work?
  • Am I learning or honing any skills?

Not as the main focus perhaps but just to keep it interesting.

If I had a friend who didn't do any of this at their work but was happy to just show up and get paid, I would wonder about their mental health, bc that is a lot of time to spend somewhere without caring about what you're doing at all.

[–] Ryanmiller70@lemmy.zip 6 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I'm pulling, pushing, and blowing air into cow carcaases all day. None of that really applies to me. There's no skills to learn other than I guess how to do it faster, but there's only so fast you can go when the line stops frequently cause somebody somewhere along it is going slow or messed something up. As long as I'm not the reason it stops then that's all that really matters.

[–] sem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Best of luck brother that's a hard job

[–] Ryanmiller70@lemmy.zip 4 points 5 days ago

Honestly my part is pretty damn easy. The grocery store job I had before this was at least 5x harder and paid a hell of a lot less.