If I may be blunt, I don't think that's because your ex is NT. It sounds like your ex is just an abusive asshole. I'm sorry you had to deal with their abuse.

[–] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago (2 children)

honestly, I'm sorry for traumadumping, took some gummies and I'm not really me.

from now on I'll aim to date neurodiverse people instead, we are more fun anyways.

[–] SoleInvictus@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 3 days ago

No apology necessary, I didn't even think of it as trauma dumping. Sometimes things just come up and I think that's okay.

Enjoy your gummies!

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

aim to date neurodiverse people instead, we are more fun anyways.

I can offer little better advice. Similarly, find someone whose baggage complements yours, so you can have a matching set.

[–] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

I looked everywhere in my house, couldn't find anyone, not even under the couch