Thats a real team-based solution focused attitude lol. Nowhere did I say "do it for them". I said help them. Because hey guess what, sometimes people can't do things by themselves. Like I said, standing behind someone and going "just do it" doesn't work. If they need help they need help. And yeah, at some point if they can't do it, they can't do it, and you need someone else to do it.

The key is finding responsibilities and roles that fit the disability. I struggle with the day to day chores, but I also have no problem with scheuled big, non-daily projects like deep cleaning or yard work or whatnot that i can hyperfocus on for 6 hours. It's all about strengths and weaknesses and finding people and jobs that are compatible.

Nothing you've said I inherently disagree with, your tone is just so aggressively dismissive and accusatory.