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Hi. On reddit, there's a subreddit, called r/dirtyr4r where you can find an FWB or sexting partner. I have yet to come across a decent alternative with something similar, though. The ONLY good possibility is lemmynsfw but it doesnt have dirtylemmy4lemmy.

Does anybody here know a good alternative with adult personals/dating?

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[โ€“] communism@lemmy.ml 6 points 3 days ago

You could probably start a lemmy community like that and people might start using it. I've seen some people advertise their onlyfans on mastodon but otherwise not really seen much by way of porn on the fediverse so idk if people would use that community.

I imagine the limitation is userbase because if only eg 30 odd people use it, you probably can't find a partner for your niche weird fetish on there.