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30s, New homeowner, wife, house needs repair, cars need repair, wallet needs repair, someone has to cook, full work week, 90 minutes spent on commuting. No kids or pets, but I feel we might have similar availability. And I'm always wondering the same because I'll never have the time to play like I did as a teen. But, here's what I have. PC and Xbox.
I generally play one story game at a time. I'll play for a couple weeks or couple months. I just try to make progress and enjoy it for what it is, not set any goals. How would I know how much time I need anyway? Could be anywhere from 30 minutes to 3 hours per session. Something like Far Cry, Assassin's Creed, Tomb Raider(don't worry, I have bigger triggers next). I'm hoping this month I "finally get around" to Fallout 3, NV, or 4.
I have other options, though, depending on immediate time availability. Some borderline storyless games (maybe with cosmetic reward progression) for the shortest of times or highest of mental fatigue (forza horizon, fortnite, rocket league, ace combat, borderlands). My two slow burn games are Valheim and Elite Dangerous. They both take probably an hour to get up to speed if I've been out of it for a few weeks, but I'll be good for a week between sessions after that. I'll sink 2+ hours per session into those. Regarding remembering controls, ED amuses me because I use an Xbox controller to play. Every button is mapped and there's a combo for every (ABXY) + (D-pad or bumpers). 14 buttons and 24 combos. Putting the controller in my hand unlocks subconscious memory of most of them. Even in other games where crouch and jump are shuffled around, it only takes a couple mistakes for me to remember.
It's not an impressive list, but I try to not beat myself up over it. I'm busy, I'm tired. I stopped being elitist about the Epic and Ubisoft bullshit because I don't have time to waste giving a fuck. There's 100 better similar games but this is what I'm doing. I'm sitting down for a good time, not a long time.
Another aspect I had to reexamine was my notion of productivity, progression, and entertainment. Did gaming fulfill a fantasy version of real "campaign" progression? Does the building and repair I do in real life actually contribute to the same feeling of accomplishment as beating a game? Does socializing in real life fulfill that need for story progression? So far... Yes. Mostly. The fantasy game version definitely looks cooler.
Only other comment is about not choosing a title. I wouldn't play a game I started because I needed to play a newer game before I was left behind. I think it's been 2 years since I last bought a game. I can't keep up. I can't finish what I have. So I more or less decided to work through my library for now. It's hard to get over the fomo of skipping titles or being multiple titles behind in a series. But so what? I have hyped games from 2015. I have hyped games from 2020. And from 2010. And from 2005. I'm missing newer games hyped in 2023. But in 2026, there will still be hyped games. And 2030. And 2035. I don't have the time for every title. So I'll see what's out when I have room again. For now, it's just about 4 story game so cycle through. Doesn't really help you decide, but maybe makes it easier to avoid not deciding.