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[โ€“] bobs_monkey@lemm.ee 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Even negative attention is better than no attention for some. Good chance she had a pretty bad home life, poor girl.

[โ€“] Elextra@literature.cafe 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Maybe but none of us saw it, even my friend who eventually became her friend later on and into adulthood.... I met her mom at least twice and she was always nice and seemed very attentive, concerned about her daughter.

We also grew up very affluent. They were too.