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submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by spujb@lemmy.cafe to c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

Lemmy is a worse platform for women than Reddit was EDIT this link is an OLD POST that contains my thesis on the state of lemmy and is not the context of the much more recent comment in the screenshot. sorry for any confusion caused by this juxtaposition, my main goal with having this linked is to expose how nothing has improved

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[–] pupbiru@aussie.zone 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

believe what you want, but as a gay man (i say this so you’re aware that there’s no misogyny involved edit: and by which i mean my personal sex life does not involve women so gender does not come into play in this specific situation), i’d never date someone where sex was off the table… i wouldn’t force it on anyone of course, but we fuck or we break up - sex is too important for my mental health to deny myself

[–] flicker@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Lmao at the idea a gay man can't be misogynist.

[–] pupbiru@aussie.zone 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

that’s not at all the intention of the comment - simply that when i make a comment directly related to my personal sex life, you’re aware that there are no women involved, thus the comment eliminates misogyny from the equation in that specific case. i’m sorry for not being clearer on that. i’ve added an edit to my comment so that it’s more apparent