this post was submitted on 02 Oct 2023
689 points (97.6% liked)

Memes

45745 readers
2006 users here now

Rules:

  1. Be civil and nice.
  2. Try not to excessively repost, as a rule of thumb, wait at least 2 months to do it if you have to.

founded 5 years ago
MODERATORS
689
submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by EherVielleicht@feddit.de to c/memes@lemmy.ml
 
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] trollblox_@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 year ago (6 children)

fuck im 17 for only 9 more months wtf do I do

[–] Pringles@lemm.ee 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Jokes aside, it's all about confidence. If anything, fake it 'till you make it. I was terrible with girls for a long time until I stopped caring and just went for it. Then I was amazed how easy it was.

[–] rotopenguin@infosec.pub 8 points 1 year ago

That is excellent good advice that everyone should follow and implement fully.

pic unrelated

[–] flying_sheep@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 year ago

Stop sweating it. Don't focus on it when meeting people. It'll happen, and it'll be better if you come to it by being an enjoyable human being.

[–] user224@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 1 year ago

I only have 5 months now.

[–] user224@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 8 months ago

So... how are you doing so far?

[–] ComradeKhoumrag@infosec.pub 1 points 1 year ago

Masturbate furiously until you fuck someone

On a more serious note, there is something good about not getting that need satisfied. Everyone's different, but I have noticed a tendency in people that get that need satisfied very early on, and those that don't.

There are definitely exceptions to this, but generally speaking, I have noticed those that get that need met have less excuses to grow, or sometimes grow so much with the person they love, that they end up losing a bit of themself

Outside of my own experiences, there's a YouTube channel I found recently "HealthyGamerGG", really cool stuff there