I also agree.
While I couldn't care less (it's their body and bodily autonomy is super important to me), I'd be a little hurt if they didn't tell me about it.
In that case I'd be more interested in talking to my partner to try and understand why they felt that they couldn't talk to me about it and needed to keep it a secret.
I asked my AI and that was its thought also.
We aren't defeferated from them. That's different from hosting that content ourselves though.
I'm not personally against piracy, however hosting that kind of content here ourselves would put our primary reason for creating this space (that of providing a safe social space for trans and LGBTQIA+ people) at risk.
I just wanted to point that out before we get a whole bunch of piracy subs created on our instance that we'd have to remove.
I would point out that piracy is against our ToS, so we wouldn't tolerate hosting piracy subs ourselves.
So this was at the very start of the s02e10 episode - "Pegasus".