One easy way to avoid this predicament is moving across the ocean. You never have to particular relatives either. Move across the ocean immediately. Never turn back
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Me and my ex wife get along better now than we did when we were married
No but not due to hostility. We just don't talk anymore the way you don't talk to some old friends anymore, ie just drifted apart. All my breakups have luckily been amicable.
Yeah, theres some I don't talk to but they wee like 2 month things or it was a really long time back. Still really good friends with one that I had a long time thing with and based on what I learned the hard way despite us still being pals is...give like at least 4-6 months of agreed upon no contact. Going to friend mode right after is rife with issues.
Haven't seen any of them in like 6 years, maybe more