The problem, at least as far as identity politics goes, is that there are certain identities that are so objectionable to Conservatives that simply acknowledging they exist will consume them. Are we going to let them erase progress because their precious fee-fees can't abide any talk about them whatsoever?
Look at the cat-and-mouse game going on right now with crosswalk outside Pulse in Florida. If any other group experiences the same sort of massacre, it would be only natural to acknowledge it in a public way. But now that Florida is run by conservatives, even that is seen as divisive.
I have a hard time telling LGBTQ+ folks in particular "Hey, pipe down, We're trying to win elections and you're scaring the muggles" when their very existence depends on the outcomes of these elections. Do we shove them all back in the closet every election season?