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[–] bjoern_tantau@swg-empire.de 31 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] OhVenus_Baby@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] pinball_wizard@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 month ago

Godspeed to you as well.

[–] MisterNeon@lemmy.world 26 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I hope that I get to reverse the trend of my quality of living plummeting.

[–] gon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 1 month ago

Best of luck on that

[–] Lumidaub@feddit.org 22 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Get those shelves on the wall. Maybe manage to decide on a new couch. That'd be nice.

[–] mannycalavera@feddit.uk 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Get those shelves on the wall

Eeeeh.... You can do that tomorrow, hey? shrugs

[–] Lumidaub@feddit.org 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Nope, can't. The walls are made of concrete, I think, some other hard as fuck material in any case, so drilling is a massive undertaking that requires a hammer drill. Also don't have all the materials because I forgot to mention "have the energy to go to the store to get materials".

[–] burrito@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Have you considered getting an ADHD diagnosis?

[–] Lumidaub@feddit.org 3 points 1 month ago

Funny you should say that, I'm on 60 mg of extended release methylphenidate a day.

[–] novibe@lemmy.ml 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Not die in the coming global wars for resources. But I mean realistically I’m not well positioned for that.

[–] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Congratulations! You get to be a low-level henchman. If you're lucky, some actor in the distant future will play you in the movie adaptation and they may even get assigned a designation like "Henchman #7" or "Blue shirt Henchman"!

[–] novibe@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 month ago

I mean you gotta do what you gotta do πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ

[–] schmorpel@slrpnk.net 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Slow down, do less, achieve less, buy less, worry less. More casual hanging out with trees, birds and lizards in my neighborhood. Eat the rich.

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[–] krysel@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 month ago

Moving out of the city into or near the mountains

[–] 9point6@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago

To have, on balance, made my life better more than worse.

Should be married and own a house by then assuming I don't catastrophically fuck something up.

Hopefully a dog

[–] ChillPenguin@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I would like to buy some land. And start prepping for the shit show.

[–] SugarCatDestroyer@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Preferably somewhere with fewer people, preferably in a village or even in a forest far from civilization, or will you arm yourself to the teeth and defend your fortress from from marauders and others?

[–] ChillPenguin@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'm not sure. I think I would like to be more self sufficient at a minimum. Gardening, hunting, fishing.

But to answer your question, probably. And hope it doesn't come to that.

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[–] islapollo@piefed.ca 7 points 1 month ago

Buy a house.

Get a second vehicle.

Hopefully get a better job or a few promotions.

Maybe a second kid if the first time around works out okay and the wife wants another. She’s still pregnant with our first so we’ll see. I love kids so I’d probably want more than one.

[–] muusemuuse@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] cornshark@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

Hope you have a good cardiac lawyer

Survive as well as possible. Might not but oh well.

[–] FireWire400@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Build myself a new life in Australia, get a motorbike and do lots of road trips, and maybe start a family.

[–] arsCynic@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 month ago

A consistent beautiful high kickflip.

[–] son_named_bort@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Work through my Steam library.

[–] dom@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 month ago

The most unlikely thing here

[–] etchinghillside@reddthat.com 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] frightful_hobgoblin@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago

Fire body for me πŸ”₯πŸ‹οΈβ€β™‚οΈπŸ”₯

[–] bitjunkie@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago
[–] fckreddit@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 month ago

Die. I have no hope left in pretty much anything. But I am also hoping to be surprised, I guess.

[–] rabber@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Play guitar on stage for first time

[–] lb_o@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

I hope I will be able to release my third indie-game about life after singularity. For now have only one released, but it is going strong.

[–] Trent@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago

Escape velocity.

[–] monovergent@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Getting some personal projects and bucket-list items done:

  • Fixing my sleep schedule and other health habits
  • Getting back to my pre-COVID gym schedule
  • Making my own mechanical keyboard
  • Learning about 3D modelling and acquiring a 3D printer
  • Organizing and curating my 6 TB data hoard
  • Start learning a new language or polishing up the one I learned in high school
  • Finding better furniture and decor, preferably the old kind without particle board
  • Travelling
[–] PerogiBoi@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 month ago

A threesome with my wife and another woman 😎

[–] Amaterasu@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

As always the right lottery numbers, so far I never got it right but it is what I hope to achieve in the next 5 years

[–] mugita_sokiovt@discuss.online 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I'm an aspiring Vtuber focused right now on narrating for one of three YouTube channels I'm associated with (that being Cocules Reddit Readings), but I want to expand on that in the future once I get myself out there with proper connections.

I do this, however, using Linux and FOSS. My producer does his channels the exact same way.

[–] Lazhward@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Who knows, I might finish my novella someday.

[–] CoffeeTails@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Same as the past 10 years. Get a job.

[–] SocialMediaRefugee@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 month ago

Keep my sanity

[–] happydoors@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Took a hit professionally to move states and get out of and escape a few years of bad employers. Now I have a part-time job where I feel overqualified but it’s essentially the same price for me to be a stay-at-home dad most of the time with my new baby. So, I really hope that when she’s 5, I can have some semblance of challenge and purpose outside of fatherhood again. I am a video director so some sense of creating art for fun again would be nice, too.

[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

girlfriend and driver's license

[–] lime@feddit.nu 1 points 1 month ago

get rid of first the anxiety, then the old mouldy house so we can put up a new one i've designed.

also finish that design.

[–] gerryflap@feddit.nl 1 points 1 month ago

Get shit back on track I guess. On the one hand I shouldn't have much to complain. I own an apartment, have enough money to get by and buy myself something nice every now and then. But mentally and physically I'm a bit of a trainwreck at the moment. Burnt out and unsure what I really want from all of this. I kept going on too long in a state that provided me everything I wanted on paper, but somehow caused a lot of trouble in practice. Ignored my hobbies for so long that I don't really know how to start with them again. I need my younger spirit back. The one that just did things because it sounded fun without overthinking or focusing on the end result. But I feel like corporate life has poisoned me to think in results and plan everything in advance.