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submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by Tweekerz@sh.itjust.works to c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 
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[–] alsaaas@lemmy.dbzer0.com 39 points 3 months ago (1 children)

For a split second I thought this was the flag of the Republic of China (1912–1949) and was very confused lol

Flag of the Republic of China 1912 to 1949

[–] Tweekerz@sh.itjust.works 8 points 3 months ago (1 children)

how did you know i was the republic of china???

[–] alsaaas@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Your profile picture smells like Sun Yat-sen

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 34 points 3 months ago (3 children)

I don't know what that flag is but it made me think it was pride but from a colorblind persons perspective.

[–] Successful_Try543@feddit.org 24 points 3 months ago

Like the first commenter already said, it stands for aromantic-asexual or in short "aroace".

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pride_flag

[–] Tweekerz@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 months ago
[–] TimewornTraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.com -3 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

I think personalized pride flags for sexual/romantic identities are dumb

and when pride flags for mental disorders come out, I'll think those are dumb too. thankfully they'll never get around to finishing the adhd flag

let ppl enjoy things, fine. let me dislike them. you're all wasting your time on dumb shit

[–] Nalivai@discuss.tchncs.de 13 points 3 months ago (1 children)

wasting your time on dumb shit

Motherfucher, you're ranting on Lemmy. Pot throwing glass stones much?

[–] TimewornTraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.com -1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

yes. I am the blackest kettle pot. I don't find any problem with that. I am free to not only waste my time on whatever dumb shit I choose but also to openly rant about the dumb shit others spend time on. and saying so doesnt make me any more or less gay either

[–] Nalivai@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 3 months ago (1 children)

On one hand, I support your right to waste your time on your gay little rants, but being rude to other people isn't exactly great.

[–] TimewornTraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

cool beans. you're the one who cussed me out. might wanna rethink your stance on hypocrisy. People who pretend to be morally consistent are the biggest hypocrites

[–] Nalivai@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 3 months ago

Calling whatever people do with their flags "dumb" is bad, uncalled for, and in bad taste. Calling motherfucher who dun it "motherfucher" is ok, citizenry, and possibly even praxis

[–] Almonds@mander.xyz 30 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

When you're aroace and truly, absolutely do not want to marry your best friend: Fuck I'm gonna die alone!

Source: am dying alone

[–] dabaldeagul@feddit.nl 8 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

When you really want to marry your best friend but are definitely not asexual: I, too, will die alone :(

(She doesn't want to marry me c:)

[–] Someplaceunknown@leminal.space 7 points 3 months ago

When you're aroace and truly, absolutely do not want to marry your best friend: Fuck I'm gonna die alone!

I love this anime

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Y'all have friends?!

(Cries internally)

[–] Cris_Color@lemmy.world 15 points 3 months ago
[–] Fandangalo@lemmy.world 17 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Is this the Bluey flag or something? I feel old.

[–] Tweekerz@sh.itjust.works 19 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)
[–] Fandangalo@lemmy.world 11 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

Thank you for educating me, homie.

Can we reverse it & make it Bluey though?

[–] Tweekerz@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 months ago
[–] serenissi@lemmy.world 11 points 3 months ago (1 children)
[–] Tweekerz@sh.itjust.works 13 points 3 months ago (1 children)

apparently it's common for aroace people to wanna marry their best friends??? idk...

[–] serenissi@lemmy.world 7 points 3 months ago

oh. I have a ace close friend who once said they wanna marry me as a joke. Now I think probably it wasn't a joke 🤷🏻‍♀️

I'm not aro/ace so didn't think about it.