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[–] dukatos@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Just do m1w

[–] Rumo161@feddit.org 3 points 17 hours ago

Omfg we are so old :D :3

[–] ArsonButCute@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Play 4x/grand strategy and youllvonly get better as you get older.

You might find yourself playing on slower speeds with rts styles though

[–] Jankatarch@lemmy.world 4 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

Strategy games are interesting, I feel aged when playing mount and blade.

I used to take on 10 men at once by myself with only half health but needed 25 men to fight an army of 35.

Now I lose a simple 1v3 but can beat armies thrice my size on hardest settings with my barely trained archer units.

I also use bufs and consumables in pokemon now so that's a thing.

Jokes on you, I've always been bad at RTS

[–] Saleh@feddit.org 10 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I have never been good in FPS when it comes to "both jump around the corner and shoot, who wins?" But i have always been good at: "Where the heck did he come from?! what is this stupid play, this is not the meta!!!" happily frustrating some tryhards. As i get older i can still enjoy that way of playing.

I've noticed that with experience comes better predictive play, rather than relying on reaction time.

[–] BigBenis@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

It's frustrating because I feel like my skills are actually still improving and better than they used to be but there's always some 11 yo kid who will absolutely wreck me over and over again to the point where I just quit out of shame.

[–] SonOfAntenora@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

It's literally the opposite. Platformers, point and click, full 3d and action games.

Wait you mean competitive multiplayer? Well turns out, being a sweaty tryhard after all is not possible for us all.

Particularly because of meta changes, intentionally bad players (think of feeders in moba) and general hostility within a team as soon as one of these gamers show up.

Games are supposed to be a fun pastime, most of the internet treats them as a second job, some people need to be remainded of this simple fact.

[–] Pulptastic@midwest.social 6 points 1 day ago

Priorities change. Now I spend more time working on my house or riding my bike than I do gaming and that is OK. It’s fun to be casual too.

[–] yermaw@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 day ago

Beating modders and pros in Halo piece of piss.

Top 0.1% PvP stats in Destiny.

Get a job and a family, get back online and told to kill myself for being so bad.

[–] SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

But.... Why is the logo for this community a Bad Dragon?

[–] kazerniel@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

I see it as a curved sword handle on top of... idk a set top box 🤣

[–] peaceful_world_view@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I was never that good.....and then I got old. Still enjoy gaming though.

[–] Old_Bald_Bloke@feddit.uk 2 points 1 day ago

Same here, mid 50s, was never better than average - I'm now mediocre

[–] TheAlbatross@lemmy.blahaj.zone 123 points 2 days ago (16 children)

Oh no I no longer can play the incredibly toxic matchmaking multi-player games and instead have to enjoy the automation, exploration, story, management and strategy games I've always loved

[–] IDew@feddit.nl 19 points 2 days ago

Factorio, my beloved

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[–] Demdaru@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The best part, I've never been competetive so I never tested myself, but sure as hell I am getting currently better at gaming.

Mostly because I am finally fighting off a list of mental shit I picked up growing up so my mind is growing cleaner and hand is becoming more sure. xD

[–] vivalapivo@lemmy.today 3 points 1 day ago

Mostly because I am finally fighting off a list of mental shit I picked up growing up

For real?

[–] JimVanDeventer@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Me being terrible at games now is because I am old and can’t sink the same time into it. But I beat Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles on NES. Do I really need to prove myself anymore?

[–] The_Picard_Maneuver@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That deserves a medal as far as I'm concerned.

[–] JimVanDeventer@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

I am just going to frame your reply. Thank you.

[–] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 7 points 1 day ago

I never had skills in gaming to begin with, I ain't good at all. At best I'm OK at strategy, but even then I'm bad. Just give me the computer and let me do DnD

[–] oplkill@lemmy.world 21 points 1 day ago

you cant lose what never had

[–] CPMSP@midwest.social 7 points 1 day ago

Strategy and turn based RPGs FTW!

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

My FPS skills have diminished mostly because I stopped playing them. But my souls skills are still good up until I get the adrenaline shakes in PvP.

[–] v4ld1z@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago

Those people are cracked tho

[–] newthrowaway20@lemmy.world 50 points 2 days ago

Jokes on you. I never had the skills to begin with.

[–] DoucheBagMcSwag@lemmy.dbzer0.com 33 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (4 children)

MFW: you have given up PvP in favor of single player and PvE games as that live service treadmill and toxicity are too much now

[–] samus12345@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 day ago

I just never did PvP in the first place.

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[–] Zephorah@discuss.online 32 points 2 days ago (2 children)

It just means it’s time for solo 4x and single player RPGs.

[–] pennomi@lemmy.world 16 points 2 days ago (2 children)

A huge Rimworld expansion drops today. Solo game players have never had it better.

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[–] mudmaniac@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Late 20s: You realize gaming from the couch is getting difficult because the distance to the TV is too blur without glasses

Mid 30s: No longer able to consume infinite packets of instant ramen. In fact it kinda tastes nasty. Halo 3 at Legendary still tho.

Early 40s: Quake 3 Arena and Half Life 2 now give you motion sickness. Can still get by Halo at Heroic.

Late 40s: The 2ft distance to your monitor now looks blur without glasses. not getting past gold or silver in ranked Overwatch

Mid 50s: Gonna need reading glasses to play. Clair Obscur difficulty now set to Story.

[–] v4ld1z@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 day ago

Honestly, as long as you're still having fun and enjoying game, I don't see an issue here. Sure, in some areas it might have gotten difficult, but if you're able to adjust

[–] vivalapivo@lemmy.today 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm in my 30 and I fucking can't beat Golgra at medium. Rrrrraaaaggeeee

[–] mudmaniac@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

I'm stymied at Renoir at the Paintress' monolith. My pride is such that I rather take a break from the game than go down to Story.

[–] FilthyShrooms@lemmy.world 18 points 2 days ago
[–] AceFuzzLord@lemmy.zip 11 points 1 day ago

Wait, y'all had gaming skills to begin with?

I can barely play online games against anyone without getting wiped in 0.0001 nanoseconds if it's a PVP game. Never had skills, so I'll never be in denial about losing what I never had.

[–] BigBananaDealer@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

i still go on cod ww2 to pwn noobs but if i ever lose its because im going against no life sweats

[–] Hackworth@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago
[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

Fine, my kids can beat me at Rocket League sometimes now, but they still can't manage their duchies and bloodlines for shit in Crusader Kings.

[–] Beebabe@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

Nope. Not me! I’ve got new glasses. That was the entirety of the problem. Nothing to see here…I’m not old

[–] SalamenceFury@lemmy.world 15 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Honestly the opposite happened to me. I'm 31 and I've been playing much better in terms of aiming than any other time ten or 20 years ago.

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[–] EtAl_isGitch@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (2 children)

For me it was the Doom reboot. I discovered my twitch reflexes just weren't what they used to be. Now I play only strategy games if anything at all.

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[–] Worstdriver@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

59 years old today and still in denial.

From Atari's Combat, through Tribes, and now Helldivers, the gaming goes on. There may come a day when I put away my mouse and controller ...

BUT IT IS NOT THIS DAY!

[–] thatradomguy@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

I was already outdone like 10 years ago by my cousins who practically came with gaming consoles out of the womb. Idk how they figure the stuff out so fast.

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