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I was just browsing a thread on c/nfl looking for new mods. There were multiple 12+ year Redditors there offering to help.

Got me wondering. There are 14,000 of us in this community. How many of us are ten year plus users who have just had enough?

Edit: I didn't expect this post to be as poignant as it became. There are so many of you... I can't reply to everyone. I'm an 11 year user and have modded something like 150 subs over the years. I'm really sad too, but I'm finding that lemmy has most of the content I'm looking for, just needs more comments.

The API was a big blow, but removing awards on past posts and deleting coin balances is really dumb.

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[–] masterofn001@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

14 years with an account. A year or so of lurking before that.

Sites come and go.

I like telling stories of the olden days of the internet. Like being user #132 on mp3.com and having chats with people like Darude (before sandstorm) and Dido (before Eminem). It was an amazing place. Now it isn't.

Reddit will follow.

As they all do

Edit: I also had the comment of the day on Reddit once.

It had 500 upvotes.

I was also a beta tester for duckduckgo. Not the app, the site/engine. When everyone else was putting him down, I believed.

That's how long I was on there.

[–] STOMPYI@lemmy.world 1 points 7 months ago

Once had a front page rage comic... man I was flying high that day!

[–] Rainy1719@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

16yrs My account was older than my kid. It feels like some weird breakup. At times I miss it but I feel better for moving on. Lemmy feels like early reddit did so I'm hopeful that the community will continue to grow.

[–] wreel@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 1 year ago

I was 2006 adopter when Paul Graham dropped a link to it on his website. I was there before the original programming subdomain Reddit and even before they supported picture thumbnails. I've seen its wild mutations over the years. Bacon, narwhal, Mr Splashypants, Colbert name dropping, the original video IAMAs, the jailbait fiasco, spacedicks, random celebrity users, the redesign from hell, etc etc.

I left.

It was a good site for a long time but after being on Lemmy for a while I can see a clear difference in experience and now I realize Reddit has been bad for a while. Terrible discourse, lowest common denominator posts, and falling into the trap of continuous engagement just to get the next hit of dopamine. Honestly, spez ruining the site has been good for me personally.

I'm proud of our rejection of a commercial online experience. This is the thoughtful community I want to be a part of. This feels like the Internet of the late 90s in terms of authenticity. With its revival with the Fediverse I'm hopeful that these types of communities will forever be part of our digital experience.

[–] flipthetube@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

13 or 14 years here. I didn’t delete my account but I don’t even want to give them the traffic from going back to see my join date.

[–] BilboBargains@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

I would imagine the 10+ demographic has the highest rates of attrition. Those people will have witnessed most of the transition from niche to lowest common denominator. Everyone knows the adage that 100k is the subreddit limit after which the community breaks down. It would happen here too. The discourse here is uncannily like the 2009 Reddit I remember. People are polite and well informed. I hope the localised and open nature of the service keeps it that way.

Prediction: Reddit will become a cesspit of advertising and data harvesting, a la Facebook. It's most of the way there already.

[–] REdOG@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago
[–] iBaz@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Would have been 12 years this month. I left when they pulled that crap with Christian (Apollo), he’s a friend IRL and I support him 100%.

[–] negativeyoda@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm loosely friendly with Lawrence from Sync. Same boat here

[–] ChunkMcHorkle@lemmy.world -1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I'm not friends with either of them, never even met them, but I left for the same reason: it doesn't have to be happening to me personally for me to realize I want no part of that shit. (That, and gleefully fucking over the accessibility users at the same time. Pick one.)

Either way,

"This is what happens when you fuck a stranger in the ass." -- Walter Sobchak

[–] negativeyoda@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm a simple man. I see Lebowski references, i upvote

[–] ChunkMcHorkle@lemmy.world -1 points 1 year ago

Man, when I wrote that I was SO close to going with "This is what happens when you find a stranger in the Alps" (because that was the censors fucking the script in the ass) but then I thought, nah, too meta. Reading your comment makes me think I should have gone with it, lol. I too upvote Little Lebowski-isms in the wild.

[–] Shadowq8@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)
[–] Blaze@reddthat.com 2 points 5 months ago

Welcome here!

[–] roofuskit@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago (1 children)

12 years, deleted my account and overwrote all posts and comments I could before I did so.

[–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago

Yeah I hauled ass this year. Logged out and will not go back. It went from decent for years to cumbersome garbage real quick.

[–] digdilem@feddit.uk 1 points 1 year ago

I deleted my 11yr high karma account on 1st July. I had another before that which was a couple of years or so old.

I did it in protest but as an interesting side effect, my mental health has improved slightly. Guess actively engaging with toxicity does have an effect.

[–] Numpty@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

13 years on Reddit. I was part of the Great Digg Exodus... now the Great Reddit Exodus.

I deleted all my comments on Reddit, all of my posts, and then toasted my user account just before the API deadline. Not looking back.

[–] ZiemekZ@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I deleted all my comments on Reddit, all of my posts, and then toasted my user account

Are you sure about that? There were some reported cases of Reddit bringing back the content. They only listen to GDPR complaints (or that one Californian equivalent).

[–] Numpty@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Son-of-a-bitch. I just searched with Google... and almost ALL my old comments are back. The user attribution is [deleted], but almost all the content of 13 or 14 years of comments has been restored. In a few cases, a top-level comment has not been restored, but everywhere in sub-comment conversations, I see my old content... content I know I explicitly deleted.

So, even though I explicitly deleted my contributions, they ignored and restored it. What an asshole move by the Reddit admins. And of course, now that my account has been deleted there's no way to follow up and re-remove all my contributions.

I wonder. Considering that the vast majority of my comments on Reddit were done while I lived in Europe if I can use GPRD and insist they remove it all.

[–] EtherealMoon@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I don't really want to think about it being that long, considering how quickly I up and left as soon as RiF was supposed to shut down. Not relying on Reddit for Google results is practically impossible for me.

[–] Damaskox@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

My Cake day is April 17, 2013.

I was maybe the most active for about the last ½-1 year before this August or something. Maybe 75-90% of my activity was lurking, viewing people's discussions.

I didn't notice negative events regarding Reddit before the API war in the summer. The subreddits I were at were nice places. I guess different communities/subreddits have conversations depending on the topic and how strick or active or casual or entertainment-only the community is about...so it's kinda obvious to me that some places have more decent talk and some of them get karma more easier with smaller effort and stuff...

I'm sad about the API stuff. I lost contact to Relay before they talked about the need of subscription, so they can handle the costs. I'm fine with that, on Relay's side - not angry about that. But my activity in Reddit took a plunge after I deleted Relay from my Android. Nowadays I go to Reddit only to read if there's info I need (problems with software etc) not found as easily some place else, but I don't create new stuff anymore.

[–] Jhogenbaum@leminal.space 1 points 11 months ago

Just over a decade on reddit. Still miss how it was. Hopeful for lemmy and fediverse future

[–] SreudianFlip@sh.itjust.works 1 points 9 months ago

13 years one account, 9 years the other.

After the API enshittification clarion, I sat down for hours and munged every. single. damn. comment with a complaint about this.

THEN I deleted the accounts.

For now, Lemmy is merely potential, but shaping up. Mastodon is microblogging and is built around individuals promoting themselves, so it feels egotistical, but it's more mature than Lemmy so I lurk there for now too.

Ultimately I am a forum user, as a participant in a conversation. Looking forward to that again.

[–] Makeshift@sh.itjust.works 1 points 9 months ago

Don’t know my exact age and can’t check as I post this because I refuse to visit reddit on my phone via anything but Apollo. But I’m pretty sure I’m 10+.

I do miss it. Once a month or so I’ll go peek at a couple smaller communities/game communities I was in that don’t have a Lemmy equivalent yet.

But I don’t comment anymore. I canceled my reddit premium the moment Apollo mentioned shut down. And I learned how to use the stronger mode of uBlock Origin to ensure they get as little from me as possible.

The site as I see it os shattered and barely functional. I can let what I’m used to shine through when I really want to by enabling certain domains to pass through uBlock Origin and NoScript. But tbh the shattered state is kind of fittingly metaphorical.

[–] kava@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

My account was 14 years old before I left for Lemmy. Seen a lot of stuff come and go on reddit. Lots of changes over the years and very rarely did I like them but stayed cause there was no real valid alternative. Finally heard about Lemmy during API changes and decided to pull the plug on reddit.

Reddit had been going downhill for nearly 10 years now, to be honest

[–] m4xie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago

11 years. Very active commenter.

I've got high hopes for this place and the fedi-verse in general! I think the decentralized nature has so much potential.

[–] Meowoem@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 year ago

Was there well over a decade, started several different communities and helped do the tech stuff for several others when they started, made tools for communities and various bots that work for Reddit - only been back to check for messages and move my stuff over to here (on dedicated accounts hosted on more niche communities, probably going to start my own instance for my main project when I've written the bots and backend)

I really think that the people who care about communities and are willing to make the effort to help them grow are the main people who've left Reddit, they're the ones Reddit hurt the most and they're the ones actually engaged enough to put the effort to change in while it's still a bit messy - it's our job to make this place great, to make tools that improve it and new things to work with it

[–] ihavenopeopleskills@kbin.social -1 points 1 year ago

Still participate in a few communities sparingly. My activity is single points of what it used to be.

[–] PenguinJuice@kbin.social -1 points 1 year ago
[–] LaLiLuLuCo@sh.itjust.works -3 points 1 year ago

I'm not using that shitty official app. 11+ years from account registration