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[–] Neato@kbin.social 22 points 1 year ago (2 children)

/s is an excellent modifier for sarcasm. There's no tone in text and bold/italic can only do so much. And with how many absolute crackpots are posting all over the internet, I'd prefer to be sure to not lump in a jokester with the absolute nutjobs.

[–] kitedemon@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Also helpful for people with trouble reading tone in text cuz of things like autism.

[–] Nittick@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago
[–] Veraxus@lemmy.world 4 points 5 months ago

...and writing tone... for the same reasons. 😬

[–] Ignacio@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

It wouldn't be the first time I get myself into a trouble because of that :(

[–] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com -1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That’s the only legitimate defense for having to tag your sarcasm I’ve ever read.

Back in MY DAY, nobody tagged their sarcasm on BBS or IRC and we ALL UNDERSTOOD AAAAA (but srsly for folks who have trouble with tone you’re fully right.)

[–] candybrie@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

What are you talking about? Even usenet in the 80s recommended using emoticons to mark sarcasm/joking remarks.

Avoid sarcasm and facetious remarks.

Without the voice inflection and body language of personal communication these are easily misinterpreted. A sideways smile, :-), has become widely accepted on the net as an indication that "I'm only kidding". If you submit a satiric item without this symbol, no matter how obvious the satire is to you, do not be surprised if people take it seriously.

Source

[–] Veraxus@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

This. I remember having a text file of emoticons back in the day because I couldn't remember what they were supposed to mean (and often didn't mean what I thought). :-/

[–] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com -1 points 1 year ago

That’s a valid point! I forgot now many emoticons I’d use back then. I’ve always hated pointing out my sarcasm using extra things, though… I prefer to do it using italics, which is reeeeal helpful on Reddit where it goes over nobody’s heads at all.

[–] Seraph@kbin.social 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

To me it's born out of this moment: "Wait, will someone see this joke and think I'm serious? If they did they'd think I'm a psycho..."

[–] Bluescluestoothpaste@sh.itjust.works -1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Am i wooshing myself??

That is literally the point of sarcasm. People legitimately wanted to murder Jonathan Swift.

If you write "/s", just write the direct unironic statement in the first place.

[–] Lanthanae@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If that were holistically true the concept of a "sarcastic tone" wouldn't exist in verbal speech.

Yes, the /s and sarcastic tone both exist and are used by people.

[–] Tenniswaffles@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Well, we certainly didn't leave that signature sense of superiority behind.

[–] Lucidlethargy@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

Honestly, that's so much worse here... The atheist posts are making me cringe pretty hard. I'm am atheist, so that's saying something.

It's like we got the best, and the worst, from Reddit.

[–] Scubus@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

But I am superior

[–] sharkfucker420@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

People who need tone indicators aren't stupid

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee -5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Correct. They’re merely cognitively insufficient to successfully model the minds of the people they talk to.

[–] SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Neurodivergent people exist, and they deserve respect too.

[–] terny@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Not only neurodivergent people need the "/s". Not all subtle speech cues are easily transmitted through text.

[–] Lev_Astov@lemmy.world -1 points 1 year ago

You shouldn't need speech cues to simply not take anything seriously.

Not at all -- it's the people who use /s that are dumb.

[–] moosetwin@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I find /s helpful :(

[–] metallic_substance@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've run into some pretty fucking stupid people here

[–] mrmhm@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I thought /s meant stupid?

/s

[–] Simon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 8 months ago

Nope, but everybody over here thinks of themselves as smart. Sometimes that's worse.

[–] Norbas@lemmy.world 1 points 8 months ago
[–] Mammothmothman@lemmy.ca 1 points 7 months ago

Do you read the comment sections on lemmy at all?

There is just as much stupid here as anywhere else on the internet.

[–] dmention7@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

If you think there are no stupid people here, I've got some bad news for you...

(You might be one of the stupid ones)

[–] Pratai@lemmy.ca 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

No, we didn’t. Tons of Reddit trolls are here.

[–] Poggervania@kbin.social -1 points 1 year ago

wheres ur /s so i know ur not being real 😡

[–] JustAbe@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I’d much rather have /s than comments that start with, or just say:

This.

Absolutely annihilates my patience towards humanity.

[–] MrSilkworm@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

☝️this /s