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I work in a strip club as a dancer. Happy to answer any questions

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[–] Sturgist@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Jesus. Titty. Fuckin. Christ.

Seriously? Am I gonna have to do it?

Fine....FML....take one for the team...


What's your favourite dinosaur πŸ¦•πŸ¦–?

[–] sp3tr4l@lemmy.zip 16 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Probably a dumb question given your username, but just to clarify:

Do you or do you not have moves like Jagger?

[–] CrystalJagger@lemm.ee 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I do indeed move like Mick himself

[–] sp3tr4l@lemmy.zip 6 points 3 days ago

Excellent!

I hope all your clients can get some satisfaction from that, haha.

[–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 16 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Thanks for doing this AMA!

  1. How did you get your dancing to professional standard?
  2. How do you stay safe at work?
  3. How many amazing stripper shoes do you own? I've always loved them but absolutely can't walk in heels.
[–] CrystalJagger@lemm.ee 12 points 3 days ago
  1. Just practice practice practice on the pole 2. Our security guys are amazing and walk us to and from our cars and are good at kicking people out and I also have mace 3. TOO MANY OMG my closet is stacked up with so many platforms
[–] CMDR_Horn@lemmy.world 16 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Have you ever dated a customer?

[–] CrystalJagger@lemm.ee 23 points 4 days ago

Dated no. Hooked up yes.

[–] jpreston2005@lemmy.world 11 points 3 days ago (1 children)

It's said that strip joints are the "canary in the coal mine" for upcoming recessions. I'm reading that a recession is coming, does that line up with what you're currently experiencing?

[–] CrystalJagger@lemm.ee 7 points 3 days ago

Not really. I mean there are good and bad seasons but I have always managed to make a living from this. And even in my best times ever there were a few nights I did shit

[–] magnetosphere@fedia.io 13 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Is prostitution common? How has it varied at different clubs you’ve worked at?

[–] CrystalJagger@lemm.ee 12 points 3 days ago

Not uncommon but places I’ve worked extras are kinda left up to the dancers to decide for themselves if they give them. And some girls do meet up with customers after to escort

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 13 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

What is your favorite dinosaur?

[–] TootSweet@lemmy.world 10 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Do you like your job?

If you could do any job you wanted, what would you pick?

[–] CrystalJagger@lemm.ee 17 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I do like my job. Theres good and bad to every job of course but this has been mostly good for me. And if I could do anything I guess working with animals somehow

[–] bhamlin@lemmy.world 7 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I know it's not what you meant, but now I want to see animal strippers.

[–] SkyezOpen@lemmy.world 9 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Possum laying motionless on the stage wearing a thong.

[–] bhamlin@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago

Please, my wallet cannot take this...

[–] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

silverback gorilla in a bikini standing confused on the stage, looks at the crowd and decides to do what he knows best: rears up and beats his chest furiously

the crowd goes wild

[–] bhamlin@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago

Somehow a gorilla in clothing is more scandalous than naked. 😏

[–] CMDR_Horn@lemmy.world 9 points 4 days ago (1 children)

What's the most dangerous situation you've been in while on the job at the club?

[–] CrystalJagger@lemm.ee 8 points 3 days ago

Nothing just super dangerous. A couple guys saying creepy thing or getting handsy but security is good at kicking them out

[–] zero_spelled_with_an_ecks@programming.dev 9 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Haave you been stripping long enough to be able to see any changes post pandemic?

How resilient is the clientele to economic downturns?

[–] CrystalJagger@lemm.ee 11 points 4 days ago

I started in 2019. So there was a year there where I wasnt dancing when everywhere was closed. But then when I came back there were rules for a little while about touching and distance and masks but then those went away. And sometimes there are slower seasons so maybe that had to do with the economy but never to the point of thinking I need to do something else

[–] BlackJerseyGiant@beehaw.org 8 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Have you ever spent time in a Turkish prison?

[–] navi@lemmy.tespia.org 8 points 4 days ago

Joey, do you ever hang out in the YMCA locker room?

[–] softcat@lemmy.ca 8 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Does the place have a buffet or hotdog station or anything

[–] CrystalJagger@lemm.ee 10 points 4 days ago (2 children)

The club I dance at now no. But I used to dance at one with a buffet

[–] softcat@lemmy.ca 7 points 4 days ago (1 children)
[–] CrystalJagger@lemm.ee 10 points 4 days ago

Sometimes not always haha

[–] wildbus8979@sh.itjust.works 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

World you have eaten the food?

[–] CrystalJagger@lemm.ee 12 points 4 days ago

Cant eat while I work but only some of the food would have made you sick

[–] anonymouse2@sh.itjust.works 7 points 4 days ago (1 children)

What's your favorite movie from the past year and why?

[–] CrystalJagger@lemm.ee 12 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Thats anora bait and you know it

[–] anonymouse2@sh.itjust.works 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Legitimately asking. Wasn't making an assumption.

[–] CrystalJagger@lemm.ee 6 points 3 days ago

I know I was joking sorry. But seriously anora and then sonic 3 probably

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

What's the entry point like for this as a profession? Did you jump right in with strip dancing or were you already a dancer or performer of some variety?

[–] CrystalJagger@lemm.ee 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I was a topless waitress for a couple months while I was first learning pole work then I was okay enough they let me dance

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 4 points 3 days ago

Interesting. Thanks for sharing.

[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Your bouncers taking care of you right?

[–] CrystalJagger@lemm.ee 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Nice :)

Glad you're safe. It's a tough business sometimes, and the dancers need to have a shield so they can do what they do.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

How much do you make and how does that play out? I assume nights and weekends are the big bucks?

[–] CrystalJagger@lemm.ee 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Some nights I make $450 and some nights I make $150. Just depends if it’s a good night or a bad night. And yes weekends are when you want to work if you can

[–] Sacreblew@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 days ago

What perfumes get the best customer feedback?