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[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 17 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Half-assed sex scenes (no pun intended) are probably worse than ones that are well done.

I still think a lot about one of the beats in a DA:I romance. But like... all the ones from DA:O were kind of bad. But also the one I played in DA:V was so PG-13 and sterile it wasn't any fun at all.

[–] Toribor@corndog.social 11 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

all the ones from DA:O

You underestimate the power of my crush on Morrigan.

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 16 points 23 hours ago (3 children)

I think that you can just give them gifts until they're horny for you is like the quintessential example of poorly done video game romance.

[–] Coelacanth@feddit.nu 5 points 22 hours ago

To be fair, the DLC that added the absurd +50 approval gifts was an optional download released on April 1st. The gifts system as shipped by the vanilla game was not too bad, and was not enough to make a companion swoon over you single-handedly. At least I don't think so. That being said, I can't pretend DA:O is the height of dating sims or anything, either.

[–] Toribor@corndog.social 4 points 22 hours ago

I'll admit my fondness was more about her character being interesting and I don't remember much of the mechanical aspects of the way the game handled relationships.

[–] kerrigan778@lemmy.world 1 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Wait isn't that basically how it works in Stardew Valley too?

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 1 points 18 hours ago

I never got far in stardew, so maybe?

[–] 2xsaiko@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 16 hours ago

SIGNALIS is a game about romance and I loved it, it is one of my favorite relatively recently released games.

Maybe you're doing it wrong?

[–] Evotech@lemmy.world 12 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

If they want sex they'll go to pornhub

[–] OutlierBlue@lemmy.ca 2 points 21 hours ago

Some people prefer multiplayer games.

[–] Graphy@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

This feels like such a non issue because games and movies these days have basically zero sex appeal or romance

It was a pleasant surprise that you could romance people in BG3

[–] JokeDeity@lemm.ee 2 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

And a major disappointment you couldn't romance in Cyberpunk and the romance in Outer Worlds felt so half assed. Romance can be a great part of a game.

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 1 points 16 hours ago

I thought you said Outer Wilds.

[–] kboy101222@sh.itjust.works 2 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

You can romance in Cyberpunk, but the romances have gender preferences. Judi and River will only romance women, Kerry and the other one I've never actually met will only romance men.

[–] JokeDeity@lemm.ee 2 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (1 children)

Really? Fair enough, I don't recall there being any options to romance anyone when I played, but I must have just missed it. I remember the forced gay scene, which, like, fine, but I'm not gay, so it would have been cool to get at least one chance with a girl, lol, but it never seemed to come up no matter what I did with female companions in tow.

[–] kboy101222@sh.itjust.works 3 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Panam is the other romancable character. If you do her entire side story (which is quite good) and choose the right options throughout, you'll have the option to romance her near the end of the game. She's only attracted to characters with a masculine body.

The romances in general are very easy to screw up. You lock yourself out of several right at character creation unfortunately. Here's what you need for character creation to get each romance:

Judy: Feminine voice and body Kerry: Masculine voice and body River: Feminine body Panam: Masculine body

As long as you meet the requirements, you can romance 2 people in vanilla, though there's something at the end of the game that requires you to pick one of them

You also need to do their side missions, but you meet each of them in the course of the main story. There's also 4 romantic encounters that sadly don't go anywhere serious.

You can get it on with Meredith Stout, the militech lady who threatens you near the start of the game. If you don't insult her, you can get another mission from her in act 2. There's also 3 encounters that can happen, but those are potential story spoilers

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 3 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

I really hate when game devs don't make all characters opportunistically bisexual.

[–] kboy101222@sh.itjust.works 2 points 15 hours ago

Agreed. Give me my Judy, Panam, and River harem damn it!

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[–] FeelzGoodMan420@eviltoast.org 14 points 1 day ago

It's always been this way.... Are people finally realizing that fan service is cringe?

[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago (2 children)

This came up, I want to say last year? In regards to movies and TV shows as well.

Aha - 2023:

https://www.npr.org/2023/10/25/1208435267/sex-teens-tv-movies

"Looking for 'nomance': Study finds teens want less sex in their TV and movies"

[–] Stovetop@lemmy.world 20 points 1 day ago (2 children)

This is where I've found myself, too. It's not that I am prudish or against the inclusion of sex scenes in shows and movies—I think some of them are pretty well done—but we're at the point where it feels like a lot of media are just adding in sex scenes for the spectacle of it without it serving any particular purpose for narrative development or characterization.

[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I mean, the Marvel stuff has all been gigantic and proves you don't need sex scenes. In fact, the one Marvel movie with a sex scene (Eternals) did the worst.

[–] Stovetop@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I don't think the mere existence of a popular franchise (made primarily for kids at that) which happens to lack sex scenes is related to the trend being acknowledged here, though.

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[–] redhorsejacket@lemmy.world 2 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

That's because OPs article is citing the second annual Teens and Screens report from the UCLA Center for Scholars and Storytellers. Your NPR article from 2023 is citing the first annual Teens and Screens report.

[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 1 points 14 hours ago

That makes sense then!

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