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Please don't think I'm here to complain about rizz or skibidi toilet etc. Thats all fine by me.

The term I dislike strongly is 'eeeh' before you make a statement disagreeing with someone. (This is over text only). Now maybe I've been pavloved bc it's always used by someone disagreeing. But I'm happy with people disagreeing with me normally its just the 'eeeh' or 'erm' that annoys me.

So what's a random term that annoys you?

PS. Saying "eeeh actually 'eeh' is a perfectly fine term" would be a ridiculously easy joke and I will judge you for making it. And I know atleast one person will. Especially bow that I've said all this.

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[–] MonkeMischief@lemmy.today 14 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I cringe so hard at the twitterist carebear-hugbox way of smugly claiming the intellectual high ground and shaming somebody:

"Be better." or "Do better."

The sentiment isn't terrible, but it's prevalent use is obviously just dripping with arrogance and thrown out in the most petty ways. Ugh!

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[–] terminhell@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

"It is what it is"

I get the sentiment behind it, it's just usually so defeatist/dismissive of a situation to me.

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[–] ikidd@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago

"Oftentimes"

Its always interchangeable with Often. Just use Often.

[–] PlexSheep@infosec.pub 6 points 12 hours ago (2 children)
  • paradigm shift
  • military grade encryption
  • cyber kill chain
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[–] vext01@lemmy.sdf.org 37 points 17 hours ago (6 children)

"I could care less" to mean "I could NOT care less"

[–] Delphia@lemmy.world 3 points 12 hours ago

I sometimes say "I could care less, but not by much"

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[–] dessalines@lemmy.ml 23 points 17 hours ago

Someone could take all the answers here and create a copypasta equivalent of fingernails on a chalkboard.

[–] AFC1886VCC@reddthat.com 20 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

"living my/your/their best life"

Please gtfo

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[–] CuddlyCassowary@lemmy.world 50 points 20 hours ago (7 children)

Especially in news headlines: slams, blasts, mind-blowing, hack (or lifehack)

I'm sure there are others, but that's all my brain can handle at the moment.

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[–] BumpingFuglies@lemmy.zip 15 points 16 hours ago (3 children)

Not a term, but a lack thereof:

People I have to regularly interact with for work have been excluding "to be", especially with "needs", and it's infuriating.

This issue needs escalated. That report needs fleshed out. Let me know if anything needs cleared up.

[–] oktux@lemm.ee 2 points 8 hours ago

To quote Shakespeare, "Or not?"

Those sound so wrong

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[–] sgibson5150@slrpnk.net 13 points 16 hours ago (6 children)

So many things. In written form, I hate when someone writes "Period." after they make a point to mean "this can't be argued" or whatever. My good bitch, I don't think you understand how arguing works. πŸ˜†

"Full stop" is a close second.

[–] Kalkaline@leminal.space 9 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

It's a perfectly valid way to win an argument, end of sentence.

[–] sgibson5150@slrpnk.net 3 points 10 hours ago

Ha serves me right ✌🏻

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[–] Ep1cFac3pa1m@lemmy.world 22 points 18 hours ago (5 children)

Mama, momma, mommas…

β€œHey Facebook mommas, I’ve got a question about…”

I don’t know why, but it annoys the shit out of me.

[–] Uli@sopuli.xyz 15 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

Similarly, not a fan of when teachers and parents talk about their "kiddos."

Feels like they're needlessly using a more playful childish term to make themselves part of a separate "in group" who "gets it."

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[–] deadcatbounce@reddthat.com 6 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

"Live. Laugh. Love." or similar.

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[–] bstix@feddit.dk 27 points 19 hours ago (6 children)

"Ding ding ding!" When someone agrees with something you wrote, but wants to make sure that you know that they already knew and claim ownership of the statement that you wrote. Condesending asshole. I did not arrive at your opinion late.

"Meanwhile" in cooking recipes. Just no. I am following a recipe in stepwise order. You do not get to tell me what I should have already done in the previous step.

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[–] kubok@fedia.io 18 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

No, you don't have a "challenge" for me. You have a problem and are trying to make it mine.

[–] MonkeMischief@lemmy.today 4 points 12 hours ago

Man if that isn't just empty manager-speak, rephrasing things to BS you and be manipulative. Lol

[–] christian@lemmy.ml 5 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (2 children)

Using the phrase "serious question" or "honest question" will make me immediately assume your question is the exact opposite of that. Probably I'm overreacting, but expecting that anyone might respect that declaration you've made about your own question, that gives me narcissist vibes.

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[–] weeeeum@lemmy.world 11 points 17 hours ago (5 children)

People using double negatives incorrectly. Like "I didn't do nothing!"

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[–] deadcatbounce@reddthat.com 4 points 14 hours ago

Starting every sentence with "So". "So" being the way to indicate the beginning of a sentence.

[–] icerunner_origin@startrek.website 20 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Upskill. I'm not 'upskilling' someone, I'm training them.

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[–] stealth_cookies@lemmy.ca 6 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (1 children)

I unreasonably hate the word "moreover". I see no reason why you wouldn't use the words "also", "additionally", or even "furthermore" that sound way better when read.

[–] jewbacca117@lemmy.world 3 points 12 hours ago

You would have hated my highschool essays

[–] originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com 18 points 19 hours ago (9 children)

im still a bit salty about 'literally'

also the constant failure to say 'i could not care less' correctly

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[–] terminally_offline@infosec.pub 3 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

Queer. Not all gay men (the one group I can safely speak about) like to be associated with an ex-slur and its connotations.

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