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My old person trait is that I think 'ghosting' is completely unacceptable and you owe the other person a face-to-face conversation.

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[–] doleo@lemmy.one 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I think that a basic lifestyle should be affordable for a basic person

[–] NotSpez@lemm.ee 10 points 1 year ago

Found the left-wing extremist! /s

[–] riceandbeans161@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

i’m gonna go one further:

i think everybody should be allowed to live a decent enough life, whether they can work or not.

[–] aphlamingphoenix@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'll go even further and say that meeting the needs of a population is the only point of having a society at all.

that almost sounds like… anticapitalist propaganda! Can’t have that! Back to your cubicle, worker #33458!

[–] Nowyn@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 year ago

I don't think that is an old person trait. You are just secretly Nordic.

[–] dingus@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

My old person trait is that none of the things mentioned in the linked image happened on accident.

They happened because capitalism doesn't give a fuck about anything except bleeding as much money as conceivably possible out of each and every human.

  1. Apps allow companies to suck more data out of your device than a website, allowing them to sell more of your data and... make more money.

  2. Video games needing access to the internet is simply Digital Rights Management and a way to prevent piracy and... make more money. Remember, most companies view something pirated as a "lost sale," not that you would have never purchased it to begin with. As Gabe Newell once said:

“We think there is a fundamental misconception about piracy. Piracy is almost always a service problem and not a pricing problem,” he said. “If a pirate offers a product anywhere in the world, 24 x 7, purchasable from the convenience of your personal computer, and the legal provider says the product is region-locked, will come to your country 3 months after the US release, and can only be purchased at a brick and mortar store, then the pirate’s service is more valuable."

  1. This one speaks for itself. Being able to be in control of the products you buy is freedom. Having products controlled remotely by a corporation is giving them carte blanche to make more money off of you.

  2. Removing accessible customer service means more people will just give up on trying to get their problem solved, effectively allowing the company to steal from people and... shocker... make more money.


I agree, in theory, in respect to ghosting, but we live in a society that teaches us to be isolated, and doesn't teach interpersonal skills unless the interpersonal skill is "Fuck you, got mine." (which is, not surprisingly, a thing about making more money.)

In other words, these aren't old people opinions. These are "I'm not gonna let capitalism absolutely fuck me endlessly" opinions.

[–] KSPAtlas@sopuli.xyz 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

In terms of piracy, I wonder how much could be prevented by having demos, like Factorio does

[–] DrQuint@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Funny how Steam has been making sales and events around demos for a while (called Next Fests) and some games absolutely blow up out of nowhere thanks to them.

Also some people think FF16 having a demo was some weird, oddball marketing move by Square Enix, except they have been making "try now, continue later" demos for games since Bravely Default.

[–] nik282000@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

I think cars should not be dependent on a touch screen for ANY of it's functions (or really have one at all). They are more difficult to use than tactile buttons, distracting, and do not receive long term support from the OEM.

What do you do with a 10 year old car that runs but the touch screen nuked due to age, firmware bugs or mechanical damage? Ford isn't going to be selling replacement units 10 years later and I have yet to see an 'infotainment' system that has aftermarket replacement considerations.

[–] MrFunnyMoustache@lemmy.one 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I don't have notification enabled on most of my apps. I will check on them when I want, but I hate seeing or hearing notifications because they are distracting me. If something is urgent, call me, otherwise it can wait.

[–] dullbananas@lemmy.ca -1 points 1 year ago

Giving strangers the ability to make your phone make noise is insane

[–] Senuf@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago

My old person traits are most of all posted here because I am an old person.

But I'll add that my old person traits is that I think a living wage should support... er... living, including a place to live, food to eat, paying for services, buying clothes, getting decent public health and education, and even have spare money for your free time (hobbies, eat out, theatre, concerts, etc.).

[–] richyawyingtmv@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

I have a few. And I'm not even that old (mid thirties)

  • People who talk on phone calls using airpods or similar look ridiculous in public, like they're utter lunatics talking to themselves or their imaginary friend.

  • people who view life through their mobile phones are unfortunate and sad. Like...why pay money to go see a gig if you're going to view it through your phone screen? I went to a wedding last week and I was one of the very few who was actually watching the procession with my own eyes rather through a camera app.

  • Not being on social media should be an accepted norm, not a fucking exception. This is an issue when dating, unbelievably.

Yeah that line was used by my abusers way to often. They just "can't understand" why I'd go no contact. As if the last 300 explanations were somehow non existent. Nope. I don't owe you anything.

And my old person trait is my walking stick I suppose.

[–] lobelia581@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 year ago

my old person trait is thinking that all of the above are extremely reasonable expectations and it's a sad world we live in where most of those aren't the case anymore

[–] csolisr@communities.azkware.net 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My old person trait is that when I purchase a printer, I should be able to use whatever is the cheapest compatible ink without the printer treating me like I'm smuggling unicorn blood out of Narnia

[–] dullbananas@lemmy.ca -1 points 1 year ago

It is often reasonable to handwrite everything to avoid printers

[–] HandwovenConsensus@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

I like having a keyboard and mouse. Doing things on a smartphone is a last resort.

[–] ikiru@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

I think I should be allowed to order food from a restaurant without needing to scan a QR code which requires me to have a smart phone and an active, paid plan in order to access their menu.

[–] TWeaK@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

I hate all websites that move things around as they load. If I see a button, that button should stay where it is when I try to click it.

[–] EuroNutellaMan@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

my old person trait is remembering that it didn't use to be this hot in the summer where I live.

[–] sagrotan@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Where should I start? I like to own my music, stream it from my server @home, I like to use a calculator, just because I like them. And I like to do things in a terminal, even when it takes 5x the time and a hand full of code. I like to connect things with cables instead of wireless, still faster and more secure, got a full cupboard of cables and adapters, I even collect movies and ebooks on my drives with the thought of "the day the internet brakes down I'll be the king here". Maybe it's because I AM old?! That kind of old, there was a time I spent money for a ringtone.

[–] lazyplayboy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

My old person trait is that instructions do not need to be videos.

[–] JehovasThickness@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't use my phone to pay at the POS and I refuse to do so. I will always carry around my card and use that.

[–] dullbananas@lemmy.ca -1 points 1 year ago

Use cash to avoid revealing card info

[–] HerrVorragend@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I want a proper headphone jack on my phone! Bluetooth can be convenient, but I prefer wired headphones.

[–] dullbananas@lemmy.ca -1 points 1 year ago

An optional second usb c port would be better

[–] confluence@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My old person trait is thinking a family should be able to live in a house if one member has a stable job (maybe two people if both are at minimum wage).

[–] dullbananas@lemmy.ca -1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Necessities for children should be provided or paid for by government

Edit: not sure about this anymore

[–] littlecolt@lemm.ee -1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

As someone who works in a call center, screw that last person on here. So sorry you hate the automated system. Sorry you had to wait on hold. They can't keep enough of us employed because y'all are fucking mean and no one wants to be abused for $15/hr.

Er, I mean, Thank you for calling, sorry about your wait!

[–] evilgiraffe666@lemmy.one 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Don't you think you could both be victims? Waiting for ages listening to a 13 second loop of music interspersed with "your call is important to us" might make people a bit more angry?

You should be mad at the people who gain financially from it, and could make it better for you and the customers, but might have to skip that third yacht for little Timmy.

[–] littlecolt@lemm.ee -1 points 1 year ago

I have very little faith that a lot of these people would be any more pleasant. My time spent over the last year in the chat department at my company is a major reason why. Chat, unlike phone, has little to no wait time usually. But maybe something about written word makes people even more vitriolic.

Of course I am upset at our staffing policies as well, and the company who is at the whim of the shitty investors.

[–] dullbananas@lemmy.ca -1 points 1 year ago

Being annoyed by kids these days wanting this new thing called "money" in exchange for necessities