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[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 110 points 11 months ago (4 children)

Someone I used to work with gets paid a truly ridiculous amount of money because she changes jobs around every 14 months to 2 years. She hates every job she takes and is constantly worried that her boss hates her in every role. I don't think she's happy, despite the huge pay. I'd rather be happy. I work to live, not live to work.

[–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 65 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I hope she retires early and enjoys life after work.

[–] OsrsNeedsF2P@lemmy.ml 10 points 11 months ago

FIRE people know

[–] RealFknNito@lemmy.world 28 points 11 months ago (2 children)

That's the thing, being able to pay bills makes me happy. Work will never make me happy.

[–] caseyweederman@lemmy.ca 12 points 11 months ago (1 children)

That's the thing, paying bills doesn't make you happy, it just temporarily eliminates the drop in happiness that would occur if you didn't pay those bills.

[–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 18 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Happiness is just a lack of unhappiness

[–] caseyweederman@lemmy.ca 4 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Well no. My point is that while money can't buy happiness, it can mitigate sources of unhappiness.

[–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 17 points 11 months ago

I dunno, money can also buy a jet ski

[–] Ookami38@sh.itjust.works 8 points 11 months ago

Money can't directly buy happiness, but it certainly smooths out the path. Also, money may not be able to buy happiness, but not-money can't buy anything.

I agree with you that the pursuit of an ever-increasing bank account is probably not a route to happiness (or more importantly contentedness, happiness is fleeting), but the reality of our world is that not having a livable amount of money tends to put direct blocks in front of your contentedness, which having money tends to dissolve.

[–] aubertlone@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago

You're taking the piss.

But there is some amount of genuine truth to this simple statement.

[–] Ookami38@sh.itjust.works 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I'm in a unique and enviable position where my work is basically nothing on the day to day. It pays enough to get by, barely, but it gives me so much free time that well... That aspect of work makes me happy lmao

[–] RealFknNito@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Could use that free time to work another job and get paid more. That'd be my first thought at least.

[–] Ookami38@sh.itjust.works 3 points 11 months ago

Meh. I'd rather work on my mental and physical health and spend time doing the things that make me happy.

[–] curiousaur@reddthat.com 7 points 11 months ago

Yeah, I like my job and love my team. I'm truly afraid of losing that.

[–] winterayars@sh.itjust.works 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, i have a friend like that. Gets paid twice (maybe 3x?) what i do but has no friends and is miserable. Well, things have been getting better for him at least and i've been making more money lately so i guess things are looking up.

[–] SandroHc@lemmy.world 23 points 11 months ago (1 children)

So, you have a friend that has no friends? 🤨

[–] winterayars@sh.itjust.works 8 points 11 months ago

It's complicated.