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Have you ever pretended to be interested in someone, especially someone who was interested in you? How did it go? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 6 days ago by atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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This question popped up in my mind. Also, my boyfriend's last relationship was with a girl who did this.

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[–] Fleppensteijn@feddit.nl 1 points 4 days ago

Some girl liked me so I went along with it. Traveled together, needed money so we moved in together, got jobs and got stuck. I thought all the time it would just be something temporary but it lasted for 10 years. She become more abusive and mentally unstable over time. It wasn't perfect but my chances to find someone else are practically zero and I didn't have to be completely lonely for some time