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I had to give him a password to drop off a $200 mattress.

They just dropped off a $400 bed today and no password needed.

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[–] Fiivemacs@lemmy.ca 21 points 22 hours ago (4 children)

I'm shocked people buy beds on amazon tbh... you can't feel if it's even good. not worth the hassle at all imo

my mantra is and always will be - if it physically connects you to the earth, don't skimp on it and buy cheap.

[–] NuXCOM_90Percent@lemmy.zip 16 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (2 children)

There have been a lot of studies over the years that testing out a mattress in a store isn't particularly effective. It can give you a rough idea of what the firmness level is but you aren't going to stay on there long enough for it to matter or get a feel for how much it retains bodyheat or deforms over time.

So if you can get a halfway decent review/baseline, you can do a lot worse than ordering online.

Aside from that: There is nothing wrong with buying cheap, if it is good. Again, unless you are spending a LOT of money, you are generally looking at similar constructions and ergonomics between a "real" couch, an ikea couch, and a walmart special. Mostly what you are paying for is something that will hold up to very heavy wear and which is meant to be taken apart and reassembled.

A buddy of mine summed it up as: You throw Target in the trash when you move. Ikea can survive two or three moves. Good luck beyond that"

[–] oeuf@slrpnk.net 3 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

You need to hide inside one of the cupboards at IKEA so you can really test the beds out after the staff leave.

[–] Curiousfur@lemmy.world 4 points 18 hours ago

That's how you end up here.

[–] dohpaz42@lemmy.world 3 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

You throw Target in the trash when you move. Ikea can survive two or three moves.

I still use my 15+ year old IKEA mattress and bed to this day.

[–] DarkSirrush@piefed.ca 5 points 21 hours ago

I recently had to give up on the fasteners on my 8 year old IKEA bedframe and screw it together - I have had to pull it apart at least once a year since I bought it due to moving for various reasons, or more recently to change which room it was in.

[–] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world 5 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

I've done similar. Went and found something in a store, then searched for it online to find the same part number and free shipping, because things like a mattress won't fit in a normal vehicle. Much rarer these days though, because you used to save money doing that, now the prices arent lower, and stores have learned to offer cheap/free shipping on large/bulk items

[–] snausagesinablanket@lemmy.world 1 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

I looked at it in a local furniture store, did my research and got it on Amazon for $90 cheaper shipped to my door.

I am shocked you are so shocked. 🤣

What makes you think its cheap?

It has 100% 5 star reviews on the furniture store website and it made of actual wood, not particle board or wood slats.

Does your mantra include assuming others cant buy anything worth having on Amazon?

Do you know what happens when you assume something?

[–] wirelesswire@lemmy.zip 2 points 22 hours ago

Same here. Always worthwhile to buy quality shoes, chairs, beds, tires, etc.