Yeah, we’re doing all of the “firsts” at the minute, today we should be getting home from food shopping and it would be the first time not having to get treats out so as we don’t have him rooting through all of the bags to see what he can try and eat.

I don’t want to think of him as a dead cat though, just temporarily not with us.

Thank you.

[–] Australis13@fedia.io 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. I completely understand - when my previous passed away 11 years ago, I kept "seeing" her out of the corner of my eye for months. Even now I just think of her as no longer with me.

[–] WolfmanEightySix@piefed.social 2 points 2 days ago

Thank you for your comment, I keep seeing other cats or our fluffy cat like door stop, which isnt even the same colour, and thinking its him, as well as seeing him out the corner of my eye. I especially appreciate the fact that we are dealing with this in a similar fashion.

[–] kikutwo@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I cried like never before. I'm sure the neighbors could hear it and I don't care. Hang in there.

[–] WolfmanEightySix@piefed.social 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

This is Coco, and Steve on the left. 18 months ago Steve got run over, when i was sat in the vets waiting i cried then. Fortunately hes ok now. Ive cried three times over Coco. I know how you feel. What happened to your cat?

[–] kikutwo@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

Aww abdominal messes