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I want to start this comment out by saying that I do agree that communities can change people, that if one is exposed to differing perspectives and belief systems, that one has the opportunity to change their outlook on the world. It's definitely how I was able to get myself out of some very bad thought processes that were ingrained into me as a child. I would, however, like to grain-of-salt that to say that I was open to hearing about differing perspectives and belief systems.
Respectfully (to you and other leftists at least), as a disabled queer trans person, I am tired of the emotional labor it takes to justify why I should exist to people on the right. I agree it should be done to engage with as many people that are willing to take it in as possible. I have done it enough to know that there are times when you can try as hard as you can, but the person just won't come over to your side of thought. I'm reminded of the saying "I can explain it for you, but I can't understand it for you."
Again, I don't mean to direct any malice or misgiving towards you or anyone else engaging with this topic in good faith. I'm just tired of doing the work that other non-marginalized people should have been doing for years.
Thank you for your response. I hear you loud and clear.