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People whose parents have become fascist, how are you dealing with it? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 2 days ago by pep@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I have 2 GOP parents, one that voted Trump originally and one that did not. Over the last 9 years, I have watched them both travel down the MAGA pipeline to become visibly fascist. The parents who taught me racism was wrong and to have empathy for others, have become openly hostile about immigrants, Muslims, and even parrot the Nazi "great replacement" theory.

Part and parcel with this, they refuse to have any discussions about the facts -- like immigrants not stealing and eating people's pets. They won't hear it, they won't even engage in the conversation...they just get angry and loud the second they hear anything that doesn't fit into the Fox News narrative. Can you relate? How are you dealing with it in your relationships with your parents?

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[–] 1984@lemmy.today 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I think it can only lead to a very bad relationship with lots of fighting both ways. Following your advice leads to eternal fighting and no parental relationship at all. Absolutely not worth fighting inside your family for whatever opinions they may have about this.

[–] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I think it's important to talk (not argue) with them because they are family. Its not a healthy relationships if you are afraid to talk to them. Whats the value in having a relationship like that?

Unless money are inheritance is involved then ill shut up and tell them to take crystals and herbal medicine lol.

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Yeah of course talk to them. But I dont think its worth fighting inside the family over these things.

Everyone needs to understand that there is a massive psy-ops to damage how we see ourselves, our neighbours, girlfriends, boyfriends, whatever. Everything is about making people fight eachother instead of the common enemy that is pulling the strings in the name of profit and power : big tech algorithms.

Of course parents will fall pray to all of this. The social media algorithms will reinforce what they believe, weather its true or false. It doesnt matter to the tech company what they believe as long as they keep using the site.

My advice is to not let this shit affect your family relationships.