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[โ€“] verdigris@lemmy.ml 21 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Having been in this position, sure, but I've also had to end relationships because the person transitioned in a direction I wasn't attracted to. Communicating honestly and openly is the key, as it is for pretty much everything about interpersonal relationships.

[โ€“] Carighan@piefed.world 5 points 3 days ago

That reminds me of a friend back in WoW who said she once broke off a relationship after coming home from a holiday and finding out her boyfriend had become her girlfriend.