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Business Owner Mindset without Becoming a Finance Bro? (lemmy.ca)

submitted 1 month ago by archipherous@lemmy.ca to c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.ca

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I need some advice on making the psychological shift from being a business employee to a business owner. I started a couple of businesses five years ago, and I'm surviving as it is, but I'm right on the lower limit. I can feel that it's my own psychology that is holding me back. I don't struggle with the practical running of the business, my problem is feeling like an exploitative schmuck because I'm charging people money for stuff. I can push just enough to let myself survive, but after that I freeze. It's a big block for me, and I just can't seem to get past it on my own.

I know there are tons of business self-help books out there, but I don't have the time/money to sift through all of them to find the non-icky diamonds in the rough. And I figure there have to be at least a few people out there who have made this transition and faced the same problems. So:

Have you confronted this problem for yourself? How did you approach it?
Were there any resources you found helpful to wrap your head around the transition?
Do you have any experience with business coaches and/or associations, and were they helpful (ie. worth the money)?
Are there any Lemmy/Reddit/Discord/other groups you found supportive/helpful?

Thanks much in advance,

~Archie

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[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Ok yeah that's brutal and unfortunately it's a situation where you are balancing the conflicting needs of you vs others.

What you charge is the difference between you doing it (and being comfortable enough to not start to resent your clients) vs you not doing it. The unfortunate reality is that mental health professionals are sitting next to defense lawyers where the need is greatest where the money is the scarcest, but these highly skilled jobs require advanced degrees and difficult certifications and lots of emotional labor to do the best they can be done. The only good solution is for society to pick up the slack as many countries do with mental health professionals and my country is clearly supposed to with defense lawyers as per our constitution. So the most ethical solution you can find is wherever you feel can keep you consistent and in the work.