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There is essentially universal agreement in the field of child psychology that "beating" your child is the wrong approach.
I've yet to meet a parent that completely ignores their child in a public venue. In many cultures children are considered to be a part of society / community and so they are given some autonomy to discover the world with their peers. Hyper individualistic Western society is really the odd one out here and Western cultures are the only ones where I've seen this take expressed openly. Conclude from that what you will.
A few weeks ago my wife and I were getting breakfast at a local bakery. Inside, a dad had decided that it did not matter that his small child was running around, screaming at the top of his lungs. The little gremlin started trying to steal pastries off other people's tables and dad stiff didn't do anything until the staff announced loudly that all unattended children would be reported to CPS.
That kid didn't need a beating, but that dad sure did.
Look, with parents you never know what they just went through. Maybe they didn't get any sleep or whatever. A different approach would have been for someone to start playing with the kid
Although I agree with the sentiment, I would NEVER expect anybody to entertain my kids. I would just pack them up and gone home. My kids are my burden to bear.
I wouldn't either but I'm not in this persons shoes