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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.ml/post/35822445

my family are Taiwanese-Americans. I was born in the US, but I grew up in a Taiwanese/Chinese household. I write both Taiwanese and Chinese because my grandparents were Chinese nationalists (KMT) who fought and lost to the communists and left China with Chiang Kaishek when he retreated to Taiwan. We're from Guangdong.

Even though my grandparents spent most of their adult life in Taiwan and America, they still identify as Chinese. They still vote for the KMT and consider Taiwan a part of a democratic China, not the PRC but the ROC.

I don't identify with an authoritarian China that suppresses freedom of speech, press and religion, commits cultural genocide against the Uyghurs, dilutes Tibetan culture and wants to annex democratic Taiwan. I wouldn't like living in a country like that.

But that's exactly what an uncle proposed me: some months ago he bought a house in Guangdong, a house he offers to our whole family. If I want, he says, I can live with him for free, he's even offering me to let me live at his condo when he's not in China (travels to America and Taiwan a lot).

I don't see it: I'm politically active, actually support Taiwanese independence and I don't believe I could keep my mouth shut if a Chinese starts telling me that Taiwan is a part of China every time I tell them I an actually Taiwanese. The conversation could go south really fast if they start to repeat communist propaganda about helping Uyghurs escape poverty (just an example out of several). I could land in jail.

My uncle says I should forget about politics and enjoy the scenery and local food. I still don't see it.

Am I a moron? I'd only have to pay for the flight and food for as long as I live in China, a country cheaper than both Taiwan and the US

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[–] LeeeroooyJeeenkiiins@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I thought lemmy.ml was federated with hexbear so why do i need to create an account to tell that guy in the comments he's an absolute fucking moron for saying "unless it's a last resort this doesn't sound like a good idea"

[–] iThinkImDumb@hexbear.net 13 points 6 days ago

that guy in the comments he's an absolute fucking moron for saying "unless it's a last resort this doesn't sound like a good idea"

it gets so much worse than that too. here are some more answers from the comments

Maybe I’m paranoid but, considering you’re politically active, I’d worry it’s a honeypot, designed with the intention of bringing you to china on your own volition and then locking you up there.

Even if it isn’t a designed honeypot, it sounds like OP will land themselves in jail either way.

If you already say in advance that you cannot accept the mainland Chinese political system and it’s set of rules, then I can hardly suggest to go there. If you start disagreeing with others publically and become a problem person you will end up in jail rather quickly. Whether you believe that to be rightful/proper justice or not, will not matter.

lies and sinophobic propaganda from the most propagandized people who think they arent propagandized. no wonder they can't federate with us, they might have to learn something about reality

[–] davel@lemmy.ml 15 points 1 week ago

Because pawb.social is defederated from hexbear.