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Parents of Lemmy, would you have your kids keep the bedroom door open when the gender they were attracted to comes over? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) by AmourDeFrance@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Growing up, I was always told that boys could come over if I leave the bedroom door open, and I see a lot with my friends that the girls would not be allowed to have boys over/in the bedroom/have the bedroom door closed or viceversa (boys with girls).

When I realized I may be gay and trans (masc), my parents were accepting and allowed me to have the door closed with girls because I was gay and still not with boys.

Then, I had a boyfriend and they said I could keep the door closed with anyone except my boyfriend.

Now, I'm nonbinary and bisexual. Would you allow your kids to close the door?

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[–] monovergent@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 days ago

Not a parent and I've honestly no idea what I'd do if the occasion arises.

I'd like to raise a family, but I'm also not sure how it would come to be. I haven't quite understood the urge to have sex, at least not in the way many people seem to. Always had the door open, not at the command of my parents, but because I never felt any reason to close it. Might literally have to ask my children for their perspective.