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Just pick one, if she doesn't like it try the other, and if she does like it and gets proficient at it, maybe she can try the other later on. Really can't go wrong here. I knew plenty of kids when I was in school who had done multiple combat sports and martial arts over the years.
You can become black belt in most martial arts as young as 15-16 (assuming you have the skills required). I can imagine that kinda achievement being a core childhood memory. 10 years of hardwork being rewarded!