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Does anybody else understand they need to make deep connections with people but their social battery has been dead for a while and can't put up with people's BS? (lemmy.world)

submitted 6 days ago by TheReanuKeeves@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] thezeesystem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 5 days ago (1 children)

You all had social batteries to start with.? I haven't really ever had it and haven't ever had much if at all deep connections. Not because I don't try but because people can't deal with my genetically dead social batteries.

[–] SolarBoy@slrpnk.net 1 points 5 days ago

If you're still interested to try and meet people, I would suggest still trying to meet up or go to locations with a bunch of people and check yourself.

How do you feel there, what do you notice, what makes you feel tired?

Very often you'll find yourself overly alert, overly self concious, or simply not used to the experience. These all drain energy.

Try again and notice if it changes. Keep trying.