Bras, head scarves, makeup, skirts versus pants, hair dye, hair length, heaven help you if you've got a position on cosmetic surgery... Everything's a fucking binary. Like, I get complaining about advertisement saturation and the endless suffocating waves of online influencing and even the social/family pressures to look or dress a certain way. But at some point its got to be about what each person feels comfortable with.

Not everything has to be a political position. It is enough to say you are self-determined.

[–] MissJinx@lemmy.world 13 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

Exactly. They don't get how much hotter it can be to be braless if you have huge titis

[–] meekah@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

I'm sure you still prefer having the choice though?

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

It's kind of a toss up for me. Pool of sweat or river in the middle? Flop-stick-bounce or support? Even antiperspirant there gets sticky.

[–] TisI@reddthat.com 1 points 2 months ago

Are you sure you're wearing the right size? I used to have the same issue until I got fitted properly and now they don't even touch.

[–] RebekahWSD@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago

I have those, and I still go braless.

The sweating is preferable to the bra, but I have issues with any clothing that's restrictive and well. Fucking hate bras.

[–] PrettyFlyForAFatGuy@feddit.uk 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

yup, My fiance is a K cup. no way she wants them swinging about when she's out

[–] grue@lemmy.world 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

My fiance is a K cup.

Eww, how can you stand to be with someone that consumerist and wasteful? You should dump her for a French press. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

[–] PrettyFlyForAFatGuy@feddit.uk 4 points 2 months ago

i just give em a jiggle and a squeeze and it makes me feel much better

[–] GingerGoodness@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago

I had my reduction 10 years ago but I can still vividly remember the underboob sweat.