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BPD and NPD (narcissism) are related.
I was sure my ex was a narcissist and I wasn’t surprised at all by her diagnosis, except I expected NPD.
Funny thing, my ex never drank, but after I caught her cheating I also had to drag her out of dangerous places so intoxicated she couldn’t stand and was vomiting on herself regularly.
It’s like once that door opened, the floodgates opened with it.
I’ve always been a drinker, but I have two beers a night (10% alcohol, so almost 4 typical beers). In all the years we were together she drank only one time until those floodgates opened.
I am going to a Modest Mouse concert with my wife tomorrow, just kissed her good night and went outside the hotel for a smoke. I can’t believe I have her at all.
I hope you have amazing luck for the rest of your life. I really do.