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Should I change my name? (linux.community)

submitted 1 year ago by ExLisper@linux.community to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Hi,

So I have lived in Spain now for almost 10 years and I will be applying for citizenship soon. As part of this process I can pretty much chose my Spanish name. Or I can keep my polish name.

The problem is that my name is very polish, like Grzegorz Filipowski. Every time someone has to write it down and look me up in a database I have to show them my ID. When it happens over the phone I have to spell it. Every time I meet someone they ask me what's my name is and then repeatedly try to pronounce it while I say 'yeah... close enough'. It's pretty annoying and it would be solved by simply changing my name to something Spanish like Gregorio González or something.

What do you think? Would you see it as a practical thing to do or as a stupid intent at impersonating a real Spaniard?

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[–] kersploosh@sh.itjust.works 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't know how it would be received in Spanish culture, but in the US this is common. I know several people with Chinese, Vietnamese, and Polish names who have either adopted Anglo-American names, or changed the spelling and pronunciation of their name to make life easier. In my opinion it's not a big deal. Also, it's fun when you get to know someone well enough to learn their "real" name.

[–] ExLisper@linux.community 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Asian immigrants do it all the time here.

[–] MissJinx@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

How do people call you? They may have a "nickname" or a spanish name right? You don't have ro have a spanish name just a more "western" one. You don't have to translate you surname either just "americanize". For exemple Grzegorz Filipowski can be Greg, or Gregor Filipo.