Asklemmy

So, evidently and before anything, this only truly affects those who have good enough relationships with their parents to grieve their loss. Some were mistreated and didn't create strong enough links, that eventually practically vanished altogether and so didn't suffer the passing of their parents as much/at all. I guess a silver lining of childhood trauma and distance is that at least you won't miss one/both parents.

I read somewhere that grief is the truest expression of love and, yeah, sure. How will I deal with my dear mom's passing, even as a quite emotionally independent guy who advises his mom more than the other way around? How can any? You just live, and remember that your mom would've much rather you did something good with your life than drown in tears and despair, and you keep going. You talk about it with close ones when you're feeling sad (my mom for instance will tear up talking about her parents). Finally, and this is gonna be a tad unsavoury for the Westerner lemmy majority: you believe in God, that this whole thing wasn't all for nothing and that God will take good care of his (mostly observational experiment?) subjects, and so you'll meet again cause who mourns a troublemaker that even God in all His mercy rejected? And that keeps you going for yet another day. Who knows, maybe it's true? 🤷😅 I believe so, lol, and certainly am on Voltaire's side of the "religion question".