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The redness of this flag is 100% dependent on his demeanor, it could easily go either way. If I'm working and a customer volunteers to help me do my job in a manner that is clearly not hostile or insulting I'd call that a good thing.
I can't think of any way doing this regularly could be a good thing.
You can't imagine a scenario where a person choosing to politely and cheerfully assist you with your job would be a good thing? Sounds like a failure of your imagination specifically
They key thing to note here is he does it because he's impatient, not because he's such a nice guy. There is no way he's not a pushy asshole, even if he hides it behind passive-agressive behavior.
I think it's more like somebody who doesn't respect this boundary probably doesn't respect other boundaries, too. This is just unhinged behavior, sorry. It's at best profoundly embarrassing.
You don't have a clue what his motives are or whether he's being a pushy asshole or not, you have exactly the same information I do and you're making baseless assumptions. If what you're claiming is true then yes it would be a bad thing, fucking duh, but you don't know that.
Yes, I do know that, because it's explicitly stated.
Lol k, well she also used the word "help", and he's smiling in the pic so clearly he's being nice about. You still lose.
Also worth noting that I never said anything abour him being impatient, I said you didn't know he was being a pushy asshole, and you don't. Being impatient does not in any way require being rude.
And I'm sure she said this was a "beige flag" because he's such a great, thoughtful guy. You're being incredibly obtuse. This is a post about her boyfriend having sketchy behavior.
If she meant red flag she'd have said red flag, if he was angry or pushy you'd think it might show on his face, but thinking's clearly not your thing. You're free to make whatever assumptions you want, but they are still assumptions. There's nothing "sketchy" about being impatient either, you're reaching.
This is the weirdest hill to die on, compadre
Right back at you kiddo
Same to ya, bub
Likewise bud
You're fortunate to not have experience with pushy assholes who do everything with a polite tone and a smile. You sound like you would be incredibly easy to manipulate - be careful out there.
More baseless assumptions, and incorrect ones at that, be better