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What was the biggest pill you've had to swallow about your own self or habits? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 2 days ago by NomenCumLitteris@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I'll go first...after 10 years of speculating in the market (read: gambling in high risk assets) I realized I shouldn't ever touch a brokerage account in my lifetime. A monkey would have made better choices than I did. Greed has altered the course of life many times over. I am at an age where I may recover from my actions over the decades, but it has taken its toll. I am frugal and have a good head on me, but having such impulsivity in financial instruments was not how I envisioned my adulthood. Its a bitter pill to swallow, since money is livelihood of my family, but I need to "invest" all I have into relationships, meaningful moments, and fulfilling hobbies.

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[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 1 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I qualify as an aspie too and I would likely be in the same boat were it not for my software development skills.

[–] rekabis@lemmy.ca 2 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

LOL 😂 I am also a software developer. 30 years in almost every sector of IT short of 3D animation and games development.

And no, AI hallucinates too gratuitously for me, and just pisses the hell outta me. It’s worse than a gaggle of juniors in terms of all the extra work it generates.

[–] kevin2107@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago

Lol people like you will be useless in a few years. Its a tool, use it like one.

[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 2 points 10 hours ago

This field is so incredibly lousy w people like us that it makes me marvel at the ones w the kind of job security that I crave because it means that their hyper focus not only aligns w the company's profit line but they've also managed to have a tenure that steered clear of enough clueless neurotypicals to keep them from getting fired or on the chopping block for a layoff.