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Aragorn also abandoned his duties for decades because he was overwhelmed with feelings of inadequacy. No matter how good you are, it is also ok to forgive yourself for not being perfect or having genetic skeletons in your closet.
Fuck kings but I'm going to defend the rightful King of Gondor for a minute here.
Aragorn in the movie might be said to have done this, although that's also debatable. Book Aragorn is different. He didn't abandon his duties due to feelings of inadequacy, that is just in the films. In the book Aragorn didn't immediately claim his title but not because he felt inadequate. Aragorn went around for decades traveling and working throughout Middle earth, and Arda generally, to organize and gain support among the people and sectors of power. He didn't want to claim it just because he was born to inherit it, he wanted to work for it in some sense. He was fulfilling his duties throughout Middle earth. That being said, he was always very confident about being king and that he would return, but they didn't feel that would play well in the movie so they made him that way to make him more sympathetic.
Embrace the skeletons, have them work for you, even!