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[–] pennomi@lemmy.world 141 points 1 year ago (24 children)

The idea of “soulmates” or “the one and only” is inherently dangerous because it threatens the honesty of a relationship at a fundamental level. And what’s more important to a relationship than honesty?

[–] kittenbridgeasteroid@discuss.tchncs.de 66 points 1 year ago (13 children)

Right? Any relationship takes work to maintain, so expecting things to just magically work without putting in any effort is a recipe for disappointment.

Also, the whole opposites attract thing is kinda bullshit when you look at 40+ year marriages.

[–] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 30 points 1 year ago (12 children)

Opposites attract works for sex though. 2 aggressive tops or 2 meek bottoms aren't gonna have nearly as much fun as one of each.

[–] DharmaCurious@startrek.website 24 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Thanks to the local porn store, I have had many an eventful evening with another meek bottom.

... also my experience, give a meek bottom some kind of hardware and an opportunity, and they turn into nearly violent tops. Lmao

Absolutely scandalous

[–] NewAgeOldPerson@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Nice name, Dharma Curious.... I should have made Dharma Chameleon...

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