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They must of just let there babies starve or something idk

This is a semi joking post

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[–] kofe@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Jokes aside, there have been cultures where women went into labor and would deliver by themselves away from the tribe. It's been a while since I read about it, but iirc if she returned without the newborn is was either unacknowledged or at minimum just accepted as her decision. Imagine having a still birth or a child with extreme physical deficiencies prior to modern medicine. I do remember thinking when I read it that it surely resulted in women not returning, too, because childbirth can be risky even with a team of professionals.

Also wet nurses have been a thing, and the practices with that range from understandable to horrific - think wives of slave owners not wanting to breast feed, so they force a slave that's given birth recently take on the duty, usually as a priority over their own child. Course, there's always been women who couldn't produce milk, so it has been done altruistically, too

[–] SatanClaus@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

That one always confused me. They probably aren't feeding and housing the slave that's feeding their baby well. Maybe I am missinformed but i'd imagine that provided less healthy milk. Not to mention the stress associated with having to feed someone else's baby.

[–] kofe@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

The only reference I have to go on off the top of my head there is Django Unchained where a difference was noted for those working in the house vs fields. I imagine it was used as emotional manipulation to bribe them with better living conditions in some cases, though