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So what's the benefit of temporarily putting your friend in distress? What got better as a result of you scaring them?
Um, our relationship? Have you ever had friends where you prank each other? The trust it engenders when you show you can play in that space but still not cause any lasting harm pulls people closer. At least it has in my experience. He's one of my best friends ever
If someone who I considered a friend pulled that kind of stunt with me I would have one fewer friend. Screwing with people is rude and it's plain bully behavior when you know they're stressed and you mess around with a thing that is cruicial for them. You had fun at someone else's expense.
Or maybe I know my friends better than you do after reading a quick story.
Idk man, maybe if this was the first time we did anything in this realm I could see that, but it's an established part of our relationship. We trust each other. And maybe some levity with no real stakes actually helped lighten his stress during a difficult time, and that was the whole point? He was spiraling a bit and wouldn't take a break, so just a bit of fun helped him chill and refocus, IMHO.
He graduated cum laude so I think it all worked out pretty well. I think you need to chill a bit and not assume you know everything about everyone after like 3 lines of text