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Can confirm, I'm one of those lucky good metabolism bastards that can eat like shit without thinking too much about it
When I was about the same weight as OP (a little heavier actually) people would say this to me, that they have great metabolism and pig out all the time but just never get fat, and when I would ask them to elaborate on what they specifically ate, it was universally a fraction of what I was eating. One guy described a day where he went totally nuts and ate a bunch of food, and after listing all the food he ate on that day I was like, "Aight cool now eat that same amount every single day for a decade and you'll get on my level."
Anyway I guess my point is that it was very demoralizing for me when I was trying to lose weight to hear people brag about their souped up metabolism, and conversely very encouraging when literally all of them were exposed as over-blowing their actual calorie consumption once I started asking them for details.
*my other point being, variable metabolisms aside, not a human on this earth is eating 3800+ calories a day with little/no exercise and staying fit
Yeah the body learns, like for examples stomachs have elasticity so (as I understand it, crudely) the sensation of fullness is something that will incrementally change if you overeat to the point of really stretching your stomach.
I learned this from an ex who liked to eat them fancy 7-12 course meals at restaurants and taught me the importance of pre-gaming so our stomachs wouldn't shrink over the course of a day waiting to eat big for two+ hours straight. So it's in the "folk knowledge at best" category of what I know, but I assume those gastric band things work the same way in reverse etc.
The impression I get with big people who are "just big" and who don't want to be, that it's a multifaceted issue they have to address, and often a fairly unique-to-them combination of factors.
Like, I remember listening to how Kevin Smith would talk about food and eating before his heart attack and his philosophy of, essentially, hedonism-first life fulfillment. I could never have imagined he would lose all that weight. Even after the heart attack and his tearful realisation that he wasn't gonna live to see his daughter grow up and go through all the interesting phases of life (ie the moment that genuinely in retrospect did change and likely extended his life by decades) even after that I was like, nah he's going to try, but there's no way a man like him can drop the weight and keep it off and start a whole new health oriented lifestyle this late in life. I just didn't think he had the psychological discipline to make such drastic changes to both his philosophy on life AND his tolerance for discomfort etc.
Now I feel slightly ashamed that he was able to fix his shit in what now looks like the blink of an eye and here I am still with all the same bad habits and poor discipline I've always had. I know there's (apparently) a lot to hate on Smith for but I genuinely admire the way he just started holding himself accountable and streaming his early walks up the hills and complaining like a baby the whole time. Look at him now. It's hard not to be impressed.
I'm skinny tho, so nobody gives me a hard time about my shitty self destructive lifestyle (and useless philosophy lol.)
None of this is commentary on OP. I don't know a damn thing about them except their doctor sucks and that they're heavy.
This was well written, it was pleasent to read. Idk, like how something can roll of the tongue, it was like that but with reading. Disclaimer: am not a native speaker of English