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[–] stinky@redlemmy.com 14 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] KoboldCoterie@pawb.social 19 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I swear this has the opposite effect. In more than one instance, I've told someone I'm ace and it's made them more persistent, like they're thinking 'Oh, I can fix that.' No, I assure you, you can't. Please stop. :(

[–] LostXOR@fedia.io 10 points 3 days ago

Pull the reverse card on them and treat their attraction like it's something that needs fixing: "Oh, you're attracted to me? I'm so sorry to hear that! Have you tried therapy?"