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[–] LaunchesKayaks@lemmy.world 48 points 6 days ago (5 children)

But, like, are there types of IT women? Asking cause I am one and don't know any tropes for us lol

[–] Abnorc@lemm.ee 42 points 6 days ago

Go forth and forge your own destiny, free of stereotypes. Or just be Alex from YIIK idk.

[–] Glitch@lemmy.dbzer0.com 21 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Every IT woman I've worked with kicks ass and is really cool, doesn't realize how cool and inspiring they are. Until management, then I have no idea how they got there, they can't seem to use a computer let alone assist with IT related decision making.

[–] LaunchesKayaks@lemmy.world 11 points 6 days ago

I would love to fit that description and I hope my coworkers think I'm cool lol. I never want to be in a position of power in this field because I have already dealt with enough dumb bullshit on the daily lol

[–] wreel@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 6 days ago

Unicorn.... Nah, I'm kidding fortunately for women there's no strong stereotypes. There were enough women in my gigs that the individuality was easily apparent.

Since that's isn't really fun I'll pull some very broad strokes descriptions out my rear end and see which one resonates with you.

The Professional Mom: 8-4:30 on the dot but maximum effort during working hours and never ever seen goofing off or chit chatting (lunch included). Pretty chill though and smart as hell.

The boardgame/crossword girl: most likely to be gender fluid. Don't ever mistake her for "gamer girl". Will happily shoot the shit with you and goof off if you treat her like human being. Will probably have real experiences of getting work/credit stolen by tech bros.

The optimistic young coder: super jazzed about being the in the field and learning everything about anything. A people pleaser to a fault. Give it two to three years before she's completely jaded. Until then, an absolute sponge of knowledge.

The cut throat career track woman: absolutely obsessed with advancing her status. Tech bros learn brutality from these ladies. Usually transition to pure management or product divisions pretty early. Also most likely to organize the "women in tech" meetings for clout in the current company. Stay on their good side for your sake.

[–] EvilMe@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

All I can think of is Lisbeth slander from the millennium series. That's pretty kickass.

[–] KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 5 days ago (1 children)

yeah, the answer is none, because im pretty sure 80-90% of the field is men still :(

(this is a stereotype meme, so it fits, don't @ me)

[–] LaunchesKayaks@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I mean, I'm the only woman tech my company has hired ever, so your statement is kinda accurate.

[–] KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

idk what the actual stats are, mostly cuz i don't really care, and it also depends on where you look, obviously. But i was mostly going off of anecotal experience, and uh, it's definitely not looking great. But then again a lot of younger women are going to stem fields, more so than IT and admin stuff. Management as well, i might have to look into some actual statistics one of these days to see what's actually going on lmao.

but it's definitely one of the things of all time in the CS space right now. It's still very male centric, for some reason.

[–] LaunchesKayaks@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

My major on college started off with 12 women in my class. At graduation, there were only 3 of us. Dealing with the sexism made most of the women drop out and go into something different. I stuck with it because I wanted to be successful in it out of spite. I see a lot of my former classmates working local retail jobs because they can't get anything in this field. Honestly feels good to be more successful than the men who looked down on me lol.

yeah i can imagine, probably also depends on where you live, and go to school at. For me it was easily 90+ % men. I don't know if there was any overt sexism in the education space (workspace i can imagine there is, but that's just how it is unfortunately), but it's definitely a little imposing walking into a room full of primarily men/women as the other gender and just trying to be normal lol.

I think a lot of the problem, at least historically, is that women just weren't as educated on technology as men, both throughout childhood and education. That's changed over time now, thankfully, but i wonder if it's more influenced by women focusing on more highly educated fields, and men moving out of those fields, and into things like CS that are still educated, but not as much as something like, micro biology, for example.

Personally as a linux user myself, i'm just happy seeing people learn about the technology they use, and learning to utilize it more effectively, possibly even learning how to create it lol. It's an indispensably useful skill to have. Especially with how "stupid proof" modern operating systems like IOS can be. I would like to see more women in the field, but unfortunately i'm not familiar enough with it to make any significant prognosis here. Other than "you should try to self educate in your free time where possible" it might make life more interesting, you never know.